It fascinates me how so many men / couples add in their write-ups that the man is STRAIGHT STRAIGHT STRAIGHT. . . yet, the first thing on their list of "looking for" is a Straight Couple followed closely by Straight Male with Bi-Male not far behind. Now even if one took the Male part out of the search criteria, and only looked into the straight couple search, 2 men and 1 woman can only equal 2 men who are clearly not completely STRAIGHT. Unless of course the 2nd man waits in the other room till the other one is finished . . . . . . BUT I would guess that his curiosity to see how the other man performs would always get the better of him.
Almost as irritating as those who put Straight / Bi - Male in their search criteria and then add at the end NO SINGLE MEN.
Know of a couple of straight guys that play with my wife and I and they are straight, threesomes dont make them bi
As for their write ups, I am sure they can put in what they like, maybe not completely honest, but depends what they are looking for with couples
I can read thier profiles most of the time, a few give aways you did not see
Might not make them Bi, but I would say it at least classifies them as curious and not 100% straight . . ... but, it's just my opinion.
Just cause I want another gent to join us surely don't make Mr E Bi. He won't freak at accidental contact but he sure does not want to do anything other with the other gent to dp me. And I'm sure those who've don't can back me up now, there is bound to be some contact during that performance.
As for normal mmf fun, there are plenty of things I can think of to keep both men bussy and happy at the same time....heck we have got 2 hands, mouth and 2 other orifaces for fun......
@ Voyer & EN I totally agree being in a mmf situation does not make 1 bi !! In our case the Mrs always chooses the new guy however if he's straight then so be it but if he's bi then it depends how deeply as im only orally bi and will NEVER go any further....Just the way i like it
All mfm play with wife is straight as she does not like seeing me with anyone else so whatever we are with her it is straight play and mm interaction
I dont mind if he is straight as I love watching her enjoy herself
Why would a mmf mean that the guys are in any way leaning towards bi? Do you watch porn? Does it turn you on? Is there a guy shagging a girl in the aforementioned porn movie? Does this make you bi curious???? HELL NO!
Watching a woman writhe in ecstasy as she's about to climax is VERY sexy and kinda difficult to achieve if she's on her own lololol
And by the author's logic: does this mean if in a mf situation where he is comfortable using a vibrator on her.....he is partial to ???? We all know that the best vibrators are bunnies and dolphins lololol
I think some of you are really missing the point here. I do think that if you are straight and wanting a FMM encounter, then the additional male participant you'd want to be straight too. The 'seeking Bi Male', would suggest you are into additional play.
The same goes for your profile stating straight male and after I query this you admit to been bi or bi curious, asking me all detail and loving my thrill.
Let's be honest
Be honest by all means, my profile says bi but I have friends that say straight because of thier straight playmates that would withdraw
You see it is all about what you and society expect
Sadly what Voyeur says is true!!!!!
People tend to look differently at a Bi-sexual Woman,than a man who confess of being Bi-sexual.
People think sexual play between women are *hot* , where I myself think sexual interludes between men is just as HOT, most would disagree and find it disturbing.
Not only MEN are the culprits here some WOMEN as well!!! And that ,I have found, is the reason most men will not mention they are Bi-curious,Bi-sexual,Or Bi-sexual opportunistic.
What PIB and Vouyer say is true.
However, I think some couples may put bi-male in their search list not because the man is bi. Some straight men are quite uncomfortable with male-male touching, others are less so. If one of the woman's fantasies is to have a DP, a bi-male may be more comfortable with the testicle-touching that happens during a DP, along with any other male-male contact.
What I am trying to say is that just because the bi-male box is ticked, does not mean that the male in the couple is bi.
From another perspective, why should bi men be excluded from searches? They also indulge in male-female interaction, which may be what the couple is looking for.
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C
Skinny-Up, I think I need to look you up the next time I'm in Gauteng. You seem to be just about the only one who understood what i was saying. (Voeyuer seems to get the jist of it too)
Something KC said made me remember
Had a threesome with a friend and his girlfriend, I was on the bottam in 69 and he was giving it to her up the back door .
As he was vigourously plugging her with me sucking her pussy his big swinging balls was banging me on the forehead
Thats called balling
Now I wonder what a real straight guy would think of that
Now another thought, to me anal sex is bi etc, wonder why so many straight guys have it in thier profiles, that combined with oral sex says "Bi"
I am a bi male and if I want to meet up with a couple doesn't mean that I want to have contact or fun with the man as well. I can play with the lady only, it is not a problem. The problem with couples with a straight male not opting to select bi or bi curious male is that they think that the guy would want to play with the man as well. That is where the confusion lies.
Somebody who understands what I was saying . . . . . and to clarify, I have no issue with whatever a person's sexual orientation is, just don't lie to yourself about it
Thanks SDMR. If people cant be honest to themselves they shouldn't be on this site as it wastes a lot of peoples time in finding the right partners to play with. That is why there are so many other frustrated people saying that they are not interested in these long chains of emails as they will most probably never meet and waste time where they could have already met a person.
Georgeous, I agree with you are saying as well, BUT just to clarify, my Eureka moment message was initially meant for Voyer's Balling message.
LOL. Misunderstanding. But yes it does make sense. :thumbup:
I think lots of guys, especially as they get older, are a bit curious and that scares them.
Wake up guys you are either straight or gay and contact wont make you gay
I personally am not bi, just very randy and wont limit myself
