So I was awake he other night... (insomniac sex addict lol)
and I thought to myself, wouldn't it be nice it you could have or be (obviously from a guys perspective) one of the following:
1. Have a lady or a list of ladies in your area who you could call up anytime after work at night for a roll around. Like 3am when I cant sleep lol
2. Be a toy to a lady or ladies where she knows your number and calls you to be ready cos she is coming over in 10minutes (cos she just finished at her boring friends house or is on her way back from the club lol) obviously while you are exploring your insomnia or after you have overcome it.
3. A group of ladies in your area who you know are into FFM 3somes and if you are experiencing insomnia you just send an sms or 2 and they come sort you out for the fun of it.
Ok ok... these are fantasies but I can bet 100% of men would love to have situations like these readily available to them free of charge obviously lol. But yeah this is South Africa and I reckon our ladies are a bit too conservative for these kind of situations. At best if it were possible in SA you would prob need to go on a date or 3 to set up one of the three above situations.
Open to the panel... questions? suggestions? further fantasies of insomniacs ? lol
Hands up if you vote for this (Imagine how many guys are raising their hands behind their desks right now lmao!! and how many ladies are either calling me a deviant or a sexual demon lol). Can we start a group or site that can deliver on this ?? lol
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Cant be just me who thinks like this
Sex God
Ok, so to start off with, maybe the excessive use of the phrase LOL is why you can't sleep, your mind is not sure about how old it is or what gender it is ????? ok, that was really just humour.
I would hazard a guess to say that there are a rather large number of men / boys out there who think something along similar lines to what you have said, but in reality, any lady / girl / woman etc who was available at a drop of an sms (hat) would not last 5 minutes with the aforementioned men / boys etc . . . . WHY? well we are idiots, we are always wanting "easy access" to sex, but the moment there is some available we immediately label the lady / girl / woman etc as something horrible . . .
So maybe the ladies / girls / woman etc are not actually too conservative for this, but rather they are wise and mature enough to know that the male of the species is not mature enough . . . . .
see no I disagree on only one point. Its only some men who label these women something terrible. Me I love bad b**ches lol just a joke. but seriously I dig a lady in tune with her sexual desires and when it comes to discretion I'm a champ at it. its like I always tell my friends who want me to keep their secrets. I say " I collect secrets and sins " lol
BUt you are correct. not all guys think like me and yes maybe this does deter the ladies who wanna have this kind of fun
Orgasminator
I don't really agree, that's sounds more like prostitution. Personally I get insulted when somebody ask if I can be there in 20 min or expects me to drop my night because they can't sleep. I just feel when do that you saying the person has no life, I get very nasty when people send me messages asking to hook up that night.
But that's just me and my 2 c
Well my opinion I too would prefer to rather have a mature relationship with someone(sexual or more) I see on a regular to avoid feeling like a mastubation aid or prostitute. Also so that when you do want to "bootycall" she won't get offened- Look some women don't mind so good luck maybe you'll find hera. But that would make me feel terrible.
When re-entering the *sexual* arena a few years ago, after my regular NSA friend retired to Durban.
This is what I was looking for,
ONE (ONE gents, Not a LIST) NSA gent to be My Booty call when ever he or I needed some play time.
At least once a week or once a month.
But alas, it never happened or became a reality.
Seems to me most men prefer quantity over quality.
Maybe cause I had a really *good* thing going, I was to optimistic.
Unfortunately it is built into the psyche of men in general to seek out VARIETY (rather than quantity - so the good few are usually too busy taking full advantage of the favours on offer) and the female psyche is wired to sift the wheat from the chaff. . So to speak (Thank goodness or we'd all be falling for those cheesy lines and generally shagging dogs)
So until you can prove your value as a MAN...
please note I am referring to the female criteria not the silly "what is a man? " list you boys were given by your buddies and boy pack when you were growing up.. That list won't cut it.
... you ain't gonna get none o' those lill' fantasies of yours my dear. .
So until you can prove your value as a MAN...
please note I am referring to the female criteria not the silly "what is a man? " list you boys were given by your buddies and boy pack when you were growing up.. That list won't cut it.
... you ain't gonna get none o' those lill' fantasies of yours my dear. .
In my view, all of this has to be based on trust and a meeting of minds - to have that requires commitment.
It is not about gender. Women do the same to men as men do to women and so on and so forth - discussed to death in these and other forums. If there is an established relationship based on trust , neither of the parties will hesitate to jump in and assist where and when required and if possible given the constraints of the hectic work/life balance modern society demands. That could be the coolest part of this - you help me knowing that I will help you :twisted:
Misuse or abuse of such a priveledge will become apparent soon enough and break down the trustful nature of the relationship - for either of the parties involved. Not only will you be stuck without a good friend, but also all of the potential other parties that come into contact with him/her.
apologies for the post hijacking...