Build!!!!

20 Jan 2014

I'd like to make a recommendation about how to self assess build descriptions. I would've described myself as medium. What passes for 'medium' means I've now changed it to athletic. There are many large people that describe themselves as 'medium'. If you can't see your penis when you look down, chances are you NOT medium. Perhaps the moderators can help out her I.e. Medium - SMALL tummy Large - big tummy Athletic - toned Muscular - gym bunny Or is it just me that's delusional? Cheers!

20 Jan 2014

Quote by Roughlover72
I'd like to make a recommendation about how to self assess build descriptions. I would've described myself as medium. What passes for 'medium' means I've now changed it to athletic. There are many large people that describe themselves as 'medium'. If you can't see your penis when you look down, chances are you NOT medium. Perhaps the moderators can help out her I.e. Medium - SMALL tummy
Large - big tummy
Athletic - toned
Muscular - gym bunny
Or is it just me that's delusional?
Cheers!

Delusional bunny?
Jokes aside, what seems to pass as medium would make us anorexic

12 Feb 2014

Okay, I have now once again gone and stood on the lounge table in front of the only mirror in the house,to really LOOK at myself!! After trying to evaluate my *build* after reading Roughlover72 suggestion on how to measure your build. I was trying to view my tiny ietsie weenie penis (clit) looking down.... NOW I had a BIG problem can not see anything remotely genital wise.... So I decided to just change *penis* to my toes... so there I was....looking down....NOTHING..... I lifted my boobs to see if I could see my toes.....NOPE I lifted my boobs and tummy to see I I could see my toes....NOPE I now bended slightly back ward with my feet more to the front trying to see if I could at least see my toes from the side...NOPE I then proceeded to bend slightly forward to see that if I lifted both my tummy and peeked between my lifted boobs If I could then see my toes...woe and behold. NOPE..... Now I was upset...I now needed to see if I at least could see my toes in the mirror,hench me standing on the lounge table viewing myself I lifted everything hanging south....LOOKEd in the mirror at my toes........could I hope??? DARE I hope????? YAY I could... Now... Does this mean I am medium????? LMAO Nope I am OVER xxxxxxx large.... there is no tick of box here on SH for the likes of me......

12 Feb 2014

Het nou lekker gelag vir Pussinboots, ja as daar 'n wil is is daar 'n weg. Dit bly altyd 'n raaisel hoekom mense sullke groot issuse het met detail beskrywings in 'n profile. Die eerste plek het baie min mense beheer oor hoe hulle gebou is. die vraag is dus as jy bietjie minder meduim, meduim of bietjie meer meduim is wat doen dit aan jou persoonlikheid. Wat maak jou dan nou minder of meer aanvaarbaar. Pussinboots of Leecee kan ons dalk inlig, maak dit dat jy beter kan liefde maak want regtig dit is al wat ek dink die verskil kan maak. Die hart binne in jou moet in al die gevalle dieselfde wees, Het nog nie gelees dat die verskillende geslagsorgane beter of slegter orgasmes veroorsaak as jy weet om dit te gebruik nie. Hoop nie dit gaan oor die selfbeeld van die ander persoon wat nie saam met jou gesien wil word nie want dan is daar iets leliks verkeerd in jou kop.

12 Feb 2014

Quote by Pussinboots1
Okay, I have now once again gone and stood on the lounge table in front of the only mirror in the house,to really LOOK at myself!!
After trying to evaluate my *build* after reading Roughlover72 suggestion on how to measure your build.
I was trying to view my tiny ietsie weenie penis (clit) looking down....
NOW I had a BIG problem can not see anything remotely genital wise....
So I decided to just change *penis* to my toes...
so there I was....looking down....NOTHING.....
I lifted my boobs to see if I could see my toes.....NOPE
I lifted my boobs and tummy to see I I could see my toes....NOPE
I now bended slightly back ward with my feet more to the front trying to see if I could at least see my toes from the side...NOPE
I then proceeded to bend slightly forward to see that if I lifted both my tummy and peeked between my lifted boobs If I could then see my toes...woe and behold. NOPE.....
Now I was upset...I now needed to see if I at least could see my toes in the mirror,hench me standing on the lounge table viewing myself
I lifted everything hanging south....LOOKEd in the mirror at my toes........could I hope??? DARE I hope?????
YAY I could...
Now...
Does this mean I am medium?????
LMAO Nope I am OVER xxxxxxx large.... there is no tick of box here on SH for the likes of me......

I am laughing together with Adonis. Well written PIB :thumbup:

12 Feb 2014

Quote by Roughlover72
I'd like to make a recommendation about how to self assess build descriptions. I would've described myself as medium. What passes for 'medium' means I've now changed it to athletic. There are many large people that describe themselves as 'medium'. If you can't see your penis when you look down, chances are you NOT medium. Perhaps the moderators can help out her I.e. Medium - SMALL tummy
Large - big tummy
Athletic - toned
Muscular - gym bunny
Or is it just me that's delusional?
Cheers!

Nope, it is not just you.
However, everyone seems to have different views on just about everything, so it is fair to assume that some of the people who think of themselves as medium really think they are. At the same token, others might think of those particular people as being more on the small side. So I guess it's always going to be a bit of a guess for people looking from the outside in.
Much the same as with penis size, the so called surveys have put the world wide average as being X long and X girth, so as a male I would report my own size according to these standards, then you go and look at sites like SH and it seems more like the average size is WAY bigger than what the worldwide research suggests. BUT. . . . . a camera is a deceiving device, it makes a penis look bigger than it really is, so it is only fair to assume that some of the body sizes we see in the gallery could appear bigger than they actually are.
What might be helpful as well, is if the site could maybe put an option on for "belly" . . . .a number of people may be "slim" in all areas except the belly . . .

12 Feb 2014

Most sites that I have seen where there are limited choices for description have "average" in the list instead of "medium". Average describes someone who can not be considered fat or skinny or gym toned but rather a person that does not tone their body with exercise or over eats until 150kg, but rather just a person that lives day to day life and watches their weight a bit. Medium can not really describe a body type in my opinion. To me, medium is someone between Dwayne Johnson and Peewee Herman (in size but not shape). Slim describes body shape, athletic describes body shape, muscular describes body shape. Medium and large just describe size. I am 6'3, weigh 84kg. I have no excess padding, I gym so I am in shape, I had my body type as athletic but was told by one person in the same forum as this one (that I started) that I pass as slim. I am not medium and I am slim... So if not athletic, then what describes me. Average would suit me but not in the list...

12 Feb 2014

Quote by SDMR
Much the same as with penis size, the so called surveys have put the world wide average as being X long and X girth, so as a male I would report my own size according to these standards, then you go and look at sites like SH and it seems more like the average size is WAY bigger than what the worldwide research suggests. BUT. . . . . a camera is a deceiving device, it makes a penis look bigger than it really is, so it is only fair to assume that some of the body sizes we see in the gallery could appear bigger than they actually are.
What might be helpful as well, is if the site could maybe put an option on for "belly" . . . .a number of people may be "slim" in all areas except the belly . . .

Dude! I disagree about the camera making a penis look bigger than it is - quite the opposite actually - I hooked up with a fine fine young specimen here - having seen MANY of his cock shots! - and was completely thrown when he pulled out that tool! It was freakin HUGE and I really had no clue what I was getting myself into, the pictures came NO WHERE NEAR accurately displaying his accurate size... That's why I prefer 'full frontal' pictures to "dick pics"... then you can at least judge the relative size...

12 Feb 2014

Quote by LeeEC

Much the same as with penis size, the so called surveys have put the world wide average as being X long and X girth, so as a male I would report my own size according to these standards, then you go and look at sites like SH and it seems more like the average size is WAY bigger than what the worldwide research suggests. BUT. . . . . a camera is a deceiving device, it makes a penis look bigger than it really is, so it is only fair to assume that some of the body sizes we see in the gallery could appear bigger than they actually are.
What might be helpful as well, is if the site could maybe put an option on for "belly" . . . .a number of people may be "slim" in all areas except the belly . . .

Dude! I disagree about the camera making a penis look bigger than it is - quite the opposite actually - I hooked up with a fine fine young specimen here - having seen MANY of his cock shots! - and was completely thrown when he pulled out that tool! It was freakin HUGE and I really had no clue what I was getting myself into, the pictures came NO WHERE NEAR accurately displaying his accurate size... That's why I prefer 'full frontal' pictures to "dick pics"... then you can at least judge the relative size...
Interesting, I have found that some of the ones I have, make me look bigger, I have also commented on size on other profiles and been told "camera is complimentary" . . . . So it seems as if maybe it is a bit of a mixed bag then. A little ego deflating, but what can one do . . . . . . . Maybe we should have a "not really sure" choice in the assets list . . . .

12 Feb 2014

Quote by SDMR
Interesting, I have found that some of the ones I have, make me look bigger, I have also commented on size on other profiles and been told "camera is complimentary" . . . . So it seems as if maybe it is a bit of a mixed bag then. A little ego deflating, but what can one do . . . . . . . Maybe we should have a "not really sure" choice in the assets list . . . .

I would take that option, I always feel I'm overstating if I say my equipment is large or my build slim. It's not like I have muscles to say athletic/toned or a lack of stomach to say slim. As for my equipment, is there a way to decide large vs ave besides judgement?

13 Feb 2014

Maybe an alternative (proactive) way of dealing with this problem, also because I know tech are already busy working on and testing fixes for all sorts of things, we should be using our write up areas to more accurately describe ourselves, instead of relying on the tick boxes to do the work for us? I mean by the forums, it's clear were all perfectly capable of communicating or points. . lol

13 Feb 2014

When I look down I can't see my cock because off my tummy but I strech my cock out I can see it so I am medium build

13 Feb 2014

Quote by LeeEC
Dude! I disagree about the camera making a penis look bigger than it is - quite the opposite actually - I hooked up with a fine fine young specimen here - having seen MANY of his cock shots! - and was completely thrown when he pulled out that tool! It was freakin HUGE and I really had no clue what I was getting myself into, the pictures came NO WHERE NEAR accurately displaying his accurate size... That's why I prefer 'full frontal' pictures to "dick pics"... then you can at least judge the relative size...

Lee I had the same experience! From his photos he looked shorter than average, and nothing too exciting... But in real life! His penis was huge! Not very long, but really really thick! I had to Really relax my jaw to get it in my mouth.... :twisted:
;)
C

13 Feb 2014

Quote by KC_

Dude! I disagree about the camera making a penis look bigger than it is - quite the opposite actually - I hooked up with a fine fine young specimen here - having seen MANY of his cock shots! - and was completely thrown when he pulled out that tool! It was freakin HUGE and I really had no clue what I was getting myself into, the pictures came NO WHERE NEAR accurately displaying his accurate size... That's why I prefer 'full frontal' pictures to "dick pics"... then you can at least judge the relative size...

Lee I had the same experience! From his photos he looked shorter than average, and nothing too exciting... But in real life! His penis was huge! Not very long, but really really thick! I had to Really relax my jaw to get it in my mouth.... :twisted:
;)
C
It's a good thing "size doesn't matter" to the ladies . . . . .

:bs::rotflmao:

13 Feb 2014

Quote by Woody
When I look down I can't see my cock because off my tummy but I strech my cock out I can see it so I am medium build

Can we say "cock" here? lol

13 Feb 2014

Quote by KC_
Lee I had the same experience! From his photos he looked shorter than average, and nothing too exciting... But in real life! His penis was huge! Not very long, but really really thick! I had to Really relax my jaw to get it in my mouth.... :twisted:
;)
C

I would be a little nervous of stretching like that around my equipment, especially if another guy decides to do some stretching himself silly

13 Feb 2014

Quote by Mike_Pta

Lee I had the same experience! From his photos he looked shorter than average, and nothing too exciting... But in real life! His penis was huge! Not very long, but really really thick! I had to Really relax my jaw to get it in my mouth.... :twisted:
;)
C

I would be a little nervous of stretching like that around my equipment, especially if another guy decides to do some stretching himself silly

Mike??? HUH????
Speak swinging dude so the rest of us can understand

13 Feb 2014

Quote by SDMR

Lee I had the same experience! From his photos he looked shorter than average, and nothing too exciting... But in real life! His penis was huge! Not very long, but really really thick! I had to Really relax my jaw to get it in my mouth.... :twisted:
;)
C

I would be a little nervous of stretching like that around my equipment, especially if another guy decides to do some stretching himself silly

Mike??? HUH????
Speak swinging dude so the rest of us can understand
By my equipment I mean my dick

13 Feb 2014

Quote by Mike_Pta

Lee I had the same experience! From his photos he looked shorter than average, and nothing too exciting... But in real life! His penis was huge! Not very long, but really really thick! I had to Really relax my jaw to get it in my mouth.... :twisted:
;)
C

I would be a little nervous of stretching like that around my equipment, especially if another guy decides to do some stretching himself silly

Mike??? HUH????
Speak swinging dude so the rest of us can understand
By my equipment I mean my dick
that is the only part that is understood

13 Feb 2014

Quote by SDMR
that is the only part that is understood

By the rest I meant another guy fucking her and risking her biting down on me.

13 Feb 2014

I sort of got it but yes. .. it's a swinging site so we don't have to use euphemisms. ... heh heh

21 Feb 2014

Does medium not mean: Medium tummy and not Small tummy? Does medium not refer to the average South African which is still smaller than the average American? Are you guys so intent on splitting hairs amongst the Nicely built people, that for some reason dominate this site, that you want to put the majority of South Africans into 1 category (Large) and have 3 categories for a select few that can proudly show their pics? Picture can mislead in many ways: Depending on the surroundings, thick can make something look short and thin can make something look long. The site also often changes the aspect ratio of photos, stretching them in height or width. A difficult one to grasp is that the camera only has one lens with one point of view and our stereoscopic vision tries to make a 3D image in our brain of what is on a flat surface. This changes perception of what is actually captured in the pic. By the way, 6'3, weigh 84kg is officially away from being slim as oppose to Athletic. And what is Athletic? Is it a shot put blob, a 100m Bolt or a Marathon runner? Having definition means one thing, very low body fat. You can be really scrawny and be ripped if you have very little fat. If I stand up straight with my shoulders against the wall and bend my neck forward, I see everything including my pubic hair and the baldish area above it. I still however consider someone somewhat bigger as medium.

4 Mar 2014

Ok now I'm also confused blink

I wouldn't consider myself large, but to the standard of this site, apparently I am! What about a description option like curvy or bootylicious? biggrin

4 Mar 2014

Ms DevinePE, I rushed of to go perv your profile to see how curvy or bootylicious you are :eeek: I will have to rely on your word you are!! Why care how curvy or bootylicious you are, as long as you are comfy in your skin. Well come to the fora`s :rose:

5 Mar 2014

PIB you sound like an awesome woman! Definitely my type wink

As for me.......I'm a very well rounded size 18, cup size DD going on E! Much more than a handful! When I stand up straight and look down, I can see my toes, but not my pussy, lifting my tummy I can see it lol

When we have loaded pics that are good enough you'll be one of the 1st to get an invite! Thanks so much for the welcome!

30 Mar 2015

Enjoying the banter! Again this was more directed at the guys PIB but I'll check you for a penis thoroughly if you like!? "Objects in the rear view mirror may appear closer than they are" maybe I need to use a rear view mirror I stead of a normal one! I thought I was average but perhaps my mirror is wrong! I can understand how folks get p'd off when photos etc aren't current and very misleading. I love curvy chicks and voluptuous chicks but it's really the guys who tend to be a bit more lenient on their descriptions. That been said I have met a couple of 'athletic' or 'slim' that also must've been using an amusement hall mirror! I guess the bottom line as said earlier is give an accurate description of yourself, and ideally some pics as well from personal experience if there are no pics, there is generally a reason for it! I'm off to alter my profile! wink

30 Mar 2015

@ Roughlover72 GOOD GOSH!!!!! WHAT in the world took you sooooooo long, a YEAR has passed, to comment on your own fora??? I have to say WELCOME BACK (me thinks) If you think that a year has passed you would for the love of me NOT recognize me right now, from this time last year to right now. Now I have a extra tummy apron!!!! Some wings swinging from the underside of my arms,instead from my shoulder blades, and even by lifting the darn tummy apron thingie up and trying to throw it over my shoulder and over my second apron which is suppose to be boobs...and even If I try bending forward and sideways... I for the love of life...cannot see past my eyelids. so now I am not even BIGggggg I am massive...sooo once again NOW here on site there is NO description for the likes of me. And yeah I might need someone to see if I still have a teeny tiny weenie... (clit) so I might just have to consult you on that offer. I am of to read your profile and check out any pics....... I realized you meant genitals after the gents started to answer your fora......but never the less...I like to banter and tease hench my second self description on body instead of clit/penis size.

31 Mar 2015

I like this "look at your toes" test ha ha. .. I have discovered I can see all the bits which you have refered to, in this test criteria, without lifting or moving anything. ... Wait so does that mean I'm below average? Small not medium? Ok now I have no clue! lol

:lol:

31 Mar 2015

Size, build, looks............ It's all relative and subjective to me. Entirely dependent on the person answering the question based on their personal views and definitions. Coupled with the the views and definitions of the person who is looking........... Just my 2c worth