Ok so we always hear of couples having a GF but this weekend something very interesting happen a single guy that we regularly play with asked if he could be my bf taking that hubby is not bi and into guys so he would be my bf
Would love to know how the SH community feel about it and has couples had bf taking that the hubby is straight and how did it work out
I mean I could see if a couple was bi how a bf would work for a couple
Obviously there would be much more opportunity for fun with a bi couple having a bi boyfriend, you know, simple math, but that doesn't mean that the wife having a boyfriend is any less acceptable - in effect, he's her regular bull then, no?
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Obviously there would be much more opportunity for fun with a bi couple having a bi boyfriend, you know, simple math, but that doesn't mean that the wife having a boyfriend is any less acceptable - in effect, he's her regular bull then, no?
No I feel been a bf is different then a regular bull don't you agree we have regular bulls and single ladies but don't consider them our bf and gf
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No I feel been a bf is different then a regular bull don't you agree we have regular bulls and single ladies but don't consider them our bf and gf
I take that, you are right. So this starts blurring the line between polly and swinging then? So unless a gf or bf is shared (in other words, at least one of the couple is bi and into the third party as much as the spouse) it isn't on?
I get that, because you don't want emotional bonds under the surface - that's looking for trouble.
Ya I agree it's leaving swinging and becoming poly and when emotions become involved it can complicate stuff
I feel that the hubby is not bi it will not work
In our experience involving a 3rd wheel with romantic connotations is not a good idea.
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No I feel been a bf is different then a regular bull don't you agree we have regular bulls and single ladies but don't consider them our bf and gf
I think his intentions,emotions etc have changed hence wanting to be the bf where he is already very priviledged to be a regular player with you guys and why change that? His feelings towards you changing from playmate to falling "in love " with you a possible scenario. Agree with karoo ,3rd element with romantic overtures as a bf will only cause conflict along the line.
Having a bill implies sex having a bf implies emotion. People need to define what they are seeking
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Ok so we always hear of couples having a GF but this weekend something very interesting happen a single guy that we regularly play with asked if he could be my bf taking that hubby is not bi and into guys so he would be my bf
Would love to know how the SH community feel about it and has couples had bf taking that the hubby is straight and how did it work out
I mean I could see if a couple was bi how a bf would work for a couple
