Guys what do you prefer a good Blow Job or the plan Sex
Joyrider
In my eyes it depends on how much effort you put in. You don't have to be the best at giving head but knowing that you're giving my other head your all makes it a better experience. Oh and the whole listening thing goes both ways, even though I believe ladies have one up on us here. They listen and respond to instruction far better then some of us guys
For me, they are both a lot of fun. But whether I enjoy a blow job or sex depends on the talent of the woman I am with. I have had some toe curling experiences with woman who know how it's done, while others just could not keep the right pace - switches hands often - or just not reading my body language. The same could be said for men going down on woman, some are good at it.....some need a map and step by step directions. The same for sex. Some woman just lay there waiting for it to be over, while others are in the moment...pushing back, meeting your thrusts, rolling you over and taking control. So again, it depends on the talents of my partner.
Reminds me of an old joke:
Q:Which is the odd one out, an egg, a rug or a blowjob.
A: A blowjob of course - you can beat an egg, you can beat a rug but nothing beats a blowjob.
Oddly I've always felt that nothing beats going down on a woman. A different sort of pleasure for the giver, but for me it's the most erotic activity.
Have to say, once again, hoping not to offend anyone, that it's not the particular sexual act that's performed, but the ENTHUSIASM with which it's performed, that's important. A mediocre bang is better than a reluctant blowjob, licking clit is no fun when her legs clamp your head, mutual self-pleasure ain't fun when there's only one of us doing it! I'd rather jerk off by myself than take part in a gang-bang where there's tension in the air! In a 1on1 situation, it is up to the dominant personality to create a mutually satisfying experience, irrespective of what activity is on the cards. In a 'more than 2' scenario the dynamic becomes much more complicated, this it what makes swinging such a challenge, not every one's cup of tea, in spite of what they may think ...........