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Hi so this is the question has anyone been blocked by members you have not spoken to?

Our theory is it might be people we know and I tell you why we met a couple that we know very well in our vanilla life at a swingers club and dey admitted to blocking us on sh

Oh we have also been blocked because dey thought our profile was fake 😂

what are your theories and have you been blocked

There will always be a reason for someone to block your profile, and sometimes that reason has nothing whatsoever to do with you or your profile.

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Hi so this is the question has anyone been blocked by members you have not spoken to?

Our theory is it might be people we know and I tell you why we met a couple that we know very well in our vanilla life at a swingers club and dey admitted to blocking us on sh

Oh we have also been blocked because dey thought our profile was fake 😂

what are your theories and have you been blocked


Its an effective way to avoid viewing the same profile multiple times when there is no interest.
Alternatively, its an effective way to not feel stalked because dude keeps making repeat appearances in your profile views list without actually interacting.

As a single male I see this a lot, someone views your profile and when you want to view it back you find that you are blocked

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As a single male I see this a lot, someone views your profile and when you want to view it back you find that you are blocked

This is a regular thing for me too

I mean really like what's up with that instead of just telling the person you not interested and then they still view you're profile with everything you do yous see them viewing

I got blocked out of the group chats simply because of the color of my skin, dont get me wro g here, i am very proud of who and what i am, and i am certainly not your everyday joe that blames the world because i dont feel proud of who i am.

I was in the group chats and complimented a white lady on how gorgeous she was, i guess some of the folk in the chat didn't like the way i was complimenting their girl and next moment i was blocked due to "racial behavior" makes me sad that we are still profile people based on race, i was not thaught like this at home. My mother and father love the human race, not a race, and unfortunately i was raised like that to, reason why i say "unfortunately".. Well stuff like this has no place in my mind set.

Our blood is red, irrespective of the color of our skins.

Sometimes someones content is just plain vulgar..rather block it as not open it again..i have blocked a lot..some stupid stuff on this site

I'm not too sure on this, but don't some couples for example use settings to block ALL single guys? I could be wrong. I also sometimes find people blocked by accident or in a bad mood, and when its discussed like adults, they unblock.

If people block you, it is to your advantage, as you know that they will not waste your time.
You are perhaps not in their focus/target market

Think about it ...did u perhaps read their profile?

did u send friends requests when they state u should not ?

do u fit into group they looking for ?

These are all reasons we block people as well as a few others don't get upset it helps narrow the search!

Swinging is a thick skinned game if u can't handle rejection should maybe not be here?

All good and noted.. Most of us are sometimes just misunderstood or come out as pushy when that's not even the case I have a few blocked profiles on here as well and some people that say they don't do this or block you but still they on you're profile

We cannot see profiles we have blocked think the confusion comes when viewing pics in the gallery but not sure