Bitching....

1 Oct 2012

Today I want to *Bitch* I hate it when someone writes me , sometimes a LONG mail and saying something that I really TOOK the time to reply to!! Just to sent the replying mail and the pop up appears that the profile is not found. That the person that has written to me NO longer had a profile here on SH. It was deleted!!! Now why in good heavens would people do that?? Write someone , and then delete their profile?? I can understand it if it was an insulting kind of letter,that they felt sort of *scared and sorry*,if that, A LONG mail making statements about my life and me,whom they know from Adam and they KNOW nothing about. But then to take a cowards way out...just pisses me off. But I can understand the deleting of a profile then. I had some of those types of mail, a plenty off. And while I am on a BITCHING spree.... Men who writes me to tell me they like exchanging mails talking about everyday things not sexual. Also just makes it bad for those that actually are true to their word,, I do not trust any mails I receive in that trend.I have found most men telling me how intellectual they are, are not really. I have never claimed to be an intellectual I am not stupid either. MOST men want to talk about sex and then to try and meet up. And STOP when they realize I am NOT going to change my mind. Some YOUNG men writes thinking I am gullible and an easy target. Maybe they think all old women here are sex and attention starved!!!!!!!! As we talk I soon realize they are NOT working and maybe looking for an easy *Sugar Mommy*to take care of them, FOR GOODNESS sake!!!!! Who would in their right mind meet someone who is not working and cannot pay his own way?? I do not expect everyone to be *flush*, but I dislike leeches. I think most men will agree with me here,same goes for a certain type of lady of course. When I do meet up with anyone,it will be someone who is able to support himself,I support myself, I expect the same. I do not mind anyone popping in only now and again saying hello, no one likes a LONG exchange of ping-pong mails,it can become boring after a while , I understand that, and those people whom pop in now and again with a mail, I will always answer back. But do not take me for a fool. Enough of the bitching for today.

2 Oct 2012

Relax and enjoy your day I know what you are talking about, a very good friend of mine, a widow , fell for this. She is now engaged to a bloke half her age, does not work, beats her up and chased her kids away Now a friend should help, but that is the thing, I am not allowed near her and this is from her not her lover, for some reason she blames me for introducing her to some friends and encouraging her to meet people and go on dates

2 Oct 2012

PIb i read your script and try and made sense of what you mean by deleting a profile from somebody who sent a mail to you or want to do it. Looking from a Mod side of it, i wonder sometimes how many times did we as mods been critisize for things we not done. Not say thats what you do. Profiles been delete by Mods i knew of not on, yes we ban profile but they will be there if you search for them and you can send a mail to them but unfortunately they can not send one back to you. But what we see every day profile holder as soon as there action threw questioning they delete there profile before any action been take, but can assure you in a weaks time the will have a new profile doing the same on the site. But they go even futher by having double profiles, as the one said after asking why wouldt he have a second profile, his answer was then i can see if people said something about me whem deen kick or ban. Its ununderstandable why people do that, what kick did they get out of bullshitting people because its not there intension to met someone or getting friends with someone. And what tickles me if you catch them out we are that bad guy's and must been abuse with to rudess remarks you think of. But at the end of the day all i can say they been caught out and been ban again. Hope i give you our side of banning profiles and knew you will understand our dilemma because you a mod aswell on a site

3 Oct 2012

Paartie, Nee ek bedoel nie die mens was ongeskik en moet geban word nie,glad nie. Ek praat van mense wat vir my skryf (soms net een maal) en as ek moeite doen om hulle terug te antwoord ,en dit wil stuur,dan is die profile nie meer met ons nie. Dit is hoogs irriterend. LMGA en nee ek sal niemand wil delete nie, Ek se eenmaal as hulle my sleg se of iets se wat ek nie vanhou nie, los my uit,en dan probeer ek hulle ignoreer. Meestal probeer ek (ek dink elk geval so) politle teenoor almal wees. EN DAN KLA MENSE HULLE WORD NIE terug geantwoord op hulle mails wat hulle vir mense stuur nie. Ek het glad nie ge*bitch* oor die werk wat julle modurators doen nie, ne.

3 Oct 2012

I got one of these the other day, these are people that spam the site and are good for nothing. however i know what it feels like to send a short mail and they just ignor you. if they not interested just reply and say sorry. you not my tipe.

3 Oct 2012

Pib nee wag ek moet 'n regstelling maak miskien druk ek myself verkeerd uit jy weet my engels is maar power, Ek beskudig jou van niks nie ek praat oor die algemeen, of beter gestel aan die hand van my ondervinding het ek 'n paar stellings gemaak. Hoop nie ek moes liewer stil gebly het want soos ek se ek druk my swak uit in engels

3 Oct 2012

@ Paartie, ek het jou skrywe verstaan. Ek dink glad nie jy beskuldig my van enige iets nie. Soms weet ek, ek klink kras en ongeskik as ek iets se,maar bedoel ook niks verkeerd daarby nie,maar solank ek en jy mekaar verstaan is die Kaap holands. @ Jimmy here is some really nice people,just keep looking.

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