bit too much?

26 Mar 2014

So I've been thinking about something. Very often, well most times I get with a guy he doesn't last very long. Now I've always just thought that they didn't have staying power or maybe its the first round etc. But it always happens and then I told its my fault. In my earlier days when I lost my virginity, it seemed the norm with my first and that's what I thought sex was about. I then met my first love and boy, he showed me a thing or two. I've only had 3 men that could "keep" up with me and some disappointments- where I'm still left wanting, then some that did a good job just wished it lasted longer sad

. I was speaking to a guy friend about this and he reckons that maybe I overwhelm the guys. Like by moaning and doing something that let's them get "trigger happy". So then what must I do? keep quiet? Moan less or keep still, lay like broccoli? Lol stop the kegels? Lol look less sexy haha?? Any tips?

26 Mar 2014

Lol, it's hard to say without experiencing the kegels etc

26 Mar 2014

Quote by Mike_Pta
Lol, it's hard to say with experiencing the kegals etc

Lol what do you mean experiencing them? Explain

26 Mar 2014

Quote by Sofistikitty
Lol, it's hard to say with experiencing the kegals etc

Lol what do you mean experiencing them? Explain
It's kinda hard to tell how much your actions contribute to decreasing a guys staying power without seeing it. However I will say that hearing a girl in orgasm is a big turn on so when your friend says it could be a reason why some guys don't last, I would believe him.

26 Mar 2014

Sofistikitty meet Stamina. Stamina meet Sofistikitty wink

26 Mar 2014

Quote by Nimfie_Pieman
Sofistikitty meet Stamina.
Stamina meet Sofistikitty

Lol lol I was just thinking bout his post haha

27 Mar 2014

You not alone on this one sofistikitty, I've had the same problems. You just need to find someone that can keep up! If you can find a girl that can keep up, you're in for a treat! (Pity you're straight)

27 Mar 2014

hi there. wel its kinda weird, for me its kinda um i dont knw how to explain this, when me and mrs jack are getting at it, it doesnt last longer than an hour and a half,(including the foreplay), but when we are out playing, its almost as if the mindset changes and somehow i can go alot longer. anyway, about a month ago, we were at one of our good friends and we were going at it like crazy, and lucky for me the girl is a quick cummer, and by her third orgasm, i told her that i dont think im going to be able to cum. she just told me to tell her what to do, like commanding her.... but wait,, hang on, something else is happening now, if i tell her to do this, she accepts and if i tell her to do that, she accepts, and with every command, i could feel my non existent orgasm coming closer and closer, and holy shit, um cumming. so yes i do think that maons and groans and all sorts of other things stimulates the largest sex organ in the body and that makes you last even shorter. my 2 cents.

27 Mar 2014

Quote by VampEC1
You not alone on this one sofistikitty, I've had the same problems.
You just need to find someone that can keep up!
If you can find a girl that can keep up, you're in for a treat!
(Pity you're straight)

Hey I'm straight but a curious kitty lol. What did you have in mind vamp?

27 Mar 2014

If I get to play with a girl. ...... I also have lots of stamina( no pun intended Mr Stamina) lol

Let's just say you definitely won't be left wanting kitty.......rather purring with pleasure passionkiss

27 Mar 2014

Quote by Nimfie_Pieman
Sofistikitty meet Stamina.
Stamina meet Sofistikitty

Thanks Cupid.. He he he... lol

So tell me? What time should I be there Kitty? :wink:

27 Mar 2014

Quote by VampEC1
If I get to play with a girl. ...... I also have lots of stamina( no pun intended Mr Stamina)
Let's just say you definitely won't be left wanting kitty.......rather purring with pleasure

Ladies please?! There are horny men on this site that have a hard time getting some... Then you go and post things this??? Salt in the wounds girls!! :lol: :lol:

27 Mar 2014

Quote by Stamina
Sofistikitty meet Stamina.
Stamina meet Sofistikitty

Thanks Cupid.. He he he... lol

So tell me? What time should I be there Kitty? :wink:
Lol stamina yesterday already, call in sick at work for monday and bring food and drink. Cos nigga you aint going NO WHERE lol I have built up tensiopn that needs sorting!

27 Mar 2014

Guys never learn, cant walk with loaded gun...lol Sometimes lust, attraction plays a big part. I have lusted after a few woman, some where great others where quick... wink

i think frequency also plays a big part in stamina. STAMINA any advice?

27 Mar 2014

Quote by Stamina
If I get to play with a girl. ...... I also have lots of stamina( no pun intended Mr Stamina)
Let's just say you definitely won't be left wanting kitty.......rather purring with pleasure

Ladies please?! There are horny men on this site that have a hard time getting some... Then you go and post things this??? Salt in the wounds girls!! :lol: :lol:
Lol maybe if vamp cool we could include you stamina wink

27 Mar 2014

Quote by VampEC1
If I get to play with a girl. ...... I also have lots of stamina( no pun intended Mr Stamina)
Let's just say you definitely won't be left wanting kitty.......rather purring with pleasure

Now I'm very interested lol take me!

27 Mar 2014

Quote by Sofistikitty
Sofistikitty meet Stamina.
Stamina meet Sofistikitty

Thanks Cupid.. He he he... lol

So tell me? What time should I be there Kitty? :wink:
Lol stamina yesterday already, call in sick at work for monday and bring food and drink. Cos nigga you aint going NO WHERE lol I have built up tensiopn that needs sorting!
So I should bring food, drink and a neck brace? I need to check with my medical aid if sex induced injuries are covered. He he he...

27 Mar 2014

If the guys cant last they need to learn to start later....use hands, mouth amd toys to give the lady a few orgasms before starting their trip... I was with a lady that would only be 'satisfied' ans able to rrest after like 7 orgasms...before that she would be wanting.... Now... I can last long...but that was torture trying to stay my orgasm that long. .so I started pleasuring with mt mouth first. ...and fingers. ..extending foreplay so she would have her last few orgasms with me thrusting into her... Take that advice guys..always make sure ur lady is thoroughly warmed up....lol Stop being selfish

27 Mar 2014

Quote by UnderCoverLover
If the guys cant last they need to learn to start later....use hands, mouth amd toys to give the lady a few orgasms before starting their trip...
I was with a lady that would only be 'satisfied' ans able to rrest after like 7 orgasms...before that she would be wanting....
Now... I can last long...but that was torture trying to stay my orgasm that long. .so I started pleasuring with mt mouth first. ...and fingers. ..extending foreplay so she would have her last few orgasms with me thrusting into her...
Take that advice guys..always make sure ur lady is thoroughly warmed up....lol
Stop being selfish

I have tried this tactic dude... Did not increase my succes rate at all.. lol

:lol:

27 Mar 2014

Quote by Stamina
If the guys cant last they need to learn to start later....use hands, mouth amd toys to give the lady a few orgasms before starting their trip...
I was with a lady that would only be 'satisfied' ans able to rrest after like 7 orgasms...before that she would be wanting....
Now... I can last long...but that was torture trying to stay my orgasm that long. .so I started pleasuring with mt mouth first. ...and fingers. ..extending foreplay so she would have her last few orgasms with me thrusting into her...
Take that advice guys..always make sure ur lady is thoroughly warmed up....lol
Stop being selfish

I have tried this tactic dude... Did not increase my succes rate at all.. lol

:lol:
What success rate? In making sure ur partner is satiated?
Bcoz im just giving from my experiences. ...
Goodluck sofistikitty...keep trying for that person that can keep up...

27 Mar 2014

I'm not gonna waste perfume and lingerie and energy lol. Maybe I must become celebate or finally get a dildo? Sad sad day lol

27 Mar 2014

Quote by Stamina
Sofistikitty meet Stamina.
Stamina meet Sofistikitty

Thanks Cupid.. He he he... lol

So tell me? What time should I be there Kitty? :wink:
Lol stamina yesterday already, call in sick at work for monday and bring food and drink. Cos nigga you aint going NO WHERE lol I have built up tensiopn that needs sorting!
So I should bring food, drink and a neck brace? I need to check with my medical aid if sex induced injuries are covered. He he he...
Yes preferably hand food,like pizza so the rest of u is free :wink: and a squeeze bottle lol the type the cyclists use. Hmmmm neck brace huh? Sure we could put that to use haha. You won't need to go to gym for week after we done .

27 Mar 2014

Oh I will take you wink

Stamina can gladly join, the more the merrier! Celebate! Hell no kitty! Get yourself a girlfriend rather.....

27 Mar 2014

Quote by VampEC1
Oh I will take you
Stamina can gladly join, the more the merrier!
Celebate! Hell no kitty! Get yourself a girlfriend rather.....

Wish I could be a fly on that wall with you 2 ladies lol

27 Mar 2014

Quote by Mike_Pta
Oh I will take you
Stamina can gladly join, the more the merrier!
Celebate! Hell no kitty! Get yourself a girlfriend rather.....

Wish I could be a fly on that wall with you 2 ladies lol

Who needs to be a fly, dude? She just invited EVERYONE!

28 Mar 2014

I'm all for a fantasy gang bang LeeEC wink

28 Mar 2014

Quote by VampEC1
I'm all for a fantasy gang bang LeeEC

See?! Told ya! :twisted:

28 Mar 2014

Quote by VampEC1
Oh I will take you
Stamina can gladly join, the more the merrier!
Celebate! Hell no kitty! Get yourself a girlfriend rather.....

Things are looking up here on SH for me...

28 Mar 2014

I's not you young lady, there are many guys you can go at it all night. I am the first to admit I cannot; but I deal with it by ensuring that I give of myself to partner i.e foreplay, massage, touch, tickle and stroke and of course the tongue. then it works out okay. Guys need to give and not take and everyone will benefit. Take care

28 Mar 2014

Quote by Masturbari
I's not you young lady, there are many guys you can go at it all night. I am the first to admit I cannot; but I deal with it by ensuring that I give of myself to partner i.e foreplay, massage, touch, tickle and stroke and of course the tongue. then it works out okay. Guys need to give and not take and everyone will benefit.
Take care

Spot on!
That is why having an orgasm is not so important to me, all the time anyway.
Those other things tend to be more memorable.
Have to say, my current work load has put a damper on my imagination.
Cannot wait for the colder months to give me more energy and mental reserves.