So it's my first time posting here and I have just read about the problems people are having with the forum,fortunately nothing has changed this time when logging in on my cell.
But that's not what I'm here to discuss... what I'd like to hear from everyone about (sorry if I missed an old thread) is do you think there a cut off to being bi-curious? I mean surely if you are having experiences with the same sex as yourself after a few encounters you are either bi or you are straight? Or could someone be curious about their sexuality forever even if you are having the experiences?
Or perhaps I have missed the plot completely? I'd love to hear what everyone else thinks about this.
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Bicurious
Sex God
Yes, I think someone could be curious forever, the only thing with that is that they are actually only trying to fool themselves.
I think you said it perfectly, after a few times, you are either one or the other, and if you have another go, then I guess it's pretty clear which one.
LeeEC could have something as well, but Bi-Friendly is (to me) still Bi . . . or maybe just downright greedy, hang on, that kindof sounds like me . . . . greedy!!!!
Orgasminator
Question, why do we need to define our sexual prefferences with a standard tick box. Personally I think we should be allowed to make our own orientation instead of saying if a person likes A,B and C they are now Bi and can't be straight etc.
Sex God
Agreed
Och... I see my comment was *lost* ..... sorry...
As someone who is pan-sexual, I can not understand why people who is suppose to be *open-minded* is shy to admit that they are Okay to enjoy same-sex interludes. But then I also know due to the judgement people has of Bi-sexual males (more so than females)most will rather say they are *open/curious to sexual interludes with the others of the same sex. to me there is nothing more exotic as 2 males enjoying each other.
@ SDM(R) Me,I am just greedy I suppose.....being pan-sexual and all....
Orgasminator
<quote><quote>Och... I see my comment was *lost* ..... sorry...
As someone who is pan-sexual, I can not understand why people who is suppose to be *open-minded* is shy to admit that they are Okay to enjoy same-sex interludes. But then I also know due to the judgement people has of Bi-sexual males (more so than females)most will rather say they are *open/curious to sexual interludes with the others of the same sex. to me there is nothing more exotic as 2 males enjoying each other. </quote>
@ SDM(R) Me,I am just greedy I suppose.....being pan-sexual and all....</quote>
The world simply isn't as free and simple as it once was.
Personally I prefer the sight of 2 woman getting to know each other really well than the sight of 2 men playing hide the sausage.
Orgasminator
Quote by Voyer1105
It has differances
I spoke to a lady friend who is bi and was shocked when she told me she did not like seeing men together at a get together
Personally i find two sexy girls moaning in pleasure more erotic than two hairy guys grunting away. Anyway, moving on
Sex God
fair comment Mike,
My guess is if it was "labelled" as "acceptable" from the beginning, the majority of people would find both equally appealing.
The human mind is so easily conditioned, regardless of how much we like to claim we are our own people
I don't think outside the box. I don't think inside the box....heck I don't even know where the box is!
My eye's view....guys are less comfortable seeing two guys having fun than ladies yes.
But is than not why there is asking people and openly answering what you enjoy and what is a bit more of a turn down....
Then you can find your great play matches 
