bi ladys

1 Jan 2015

we dont believe there are any couples in knysna or Plett with bi ladys we believe there profiles is what the hubby wants but not the wife so please dont put a ad up couple with bi lady if she is not bi

3 Jan 2015

You have said it, not only in your area but in general On the other hand I have heard of bi ladies that cant connect with other bi,s even with all the adds placed A good idea would be to investigate all these false adds, the men are understandable as they are wankers but the woman?

3 Jan 2015

Quote by Voyer1105
You have said it, not only in your area but in general
On the other hand I have heard of bi ladies that cant connect with other bi,s even with all the adds placed
A good idea would be to investigate all these false adds, the men are understandable as they are wankers but the woman?

we met a few funny only the hubby "wanna check things out " or in the meeting it came out she not bi the hubby wants her to be bi

3 Jan 2015

That figures Why go to all this trouble, just swing alone, it works if your approach is right and subterfuge is not the approach

4 Jan 2015

Maybe try a bit further from home. . I've met lots of Bi ladies in PE. I can think of 4..no 5 off the top of my head. . All part of couples. All lovely people.

4 Feb 2015

People at home mite be scared or shi I have the same problem, guys my age and all the same wants but they dont want to meet, evan with a girl included i the mix

4 Feb 2015

if we can only put the names up of all the fake profiles and when you meet the pics and person not the same and just before the meeting the cell is off and you will wait and wait

4 Feb 2015

Quote by nerowp
if we can only put the names up of all the fake profiles and when you meet the pics and person not the same and just before the meeting the cell is off and you will wait and wait

Please don't, then problem is open up a lot of room for mud slinging. Next thing you know you miss a meet and you get called a fake and flames start. It's a steep slippery slope.
Speak to couples you know, ask for dinner and meet confirmed swingers.

4 Feb 2015

Quote by nerowp
if we can only put the names up of all the fake profiles and when you meet the pics and person not the same and just before the meeting the cell is off and you will wait and wait

We have been through this debate before, it will just do damage.
We are all shopping here, the market is full of people offering what they dont have, but some are selling the real deal. So as they say in the classics , caveat emptor

5 Feb 2015

I agree, calling out goes nowhere, and yes, caveat emptor, however there is something you can do to avoid this situation: when you are communicating only with 'the man', beware, red flag, insist that the ladies talk to each other about where this is going, assuming yours is on the same page as you are, of course. the central scrutinizer

6 Feb 2015

Quote by nerowp
if we can only put the names up of all the fake profiles and when you meet the pics and person not the same and just before the meeting the cell is off and you will wait and wait

You may not do this - the main reason: is that it's a waste of time and it's asking for kak:
1) if you were using the proper reporting methods these people wouldn't be on the site any more anyway, so the list would be useless!
2) the next time you have a family emergency and you've got to call things off at the last minute... your name will end up on that list.

6 Feb 2015

Quote by wolfman
I agree, calling out goes nowhere, and yes, caveat emptor, however there is something you can do to avoid this situation: when you are communicating only with 'the man', beware, red flag, insist that the ladies talk to each other about where this is going, assuming yours is on the same page as you are, of course.
the central scrutinizer

Good advice wolf!

6 Feb 2015

It's a pleasure! See, I do have some redeeming merits, they're just few and far between. the central scrutinizer

12 Mar 2015

Hi, I know not in keeping with the start of topic, but sometimes also those that are time wasters, as you can go through a lot of trouble to meet people and then they dont show not even a family emergency….. And then dont even have the manners to respond to messages sent to perhaps explain, then i truely believe they should be "marked"