When we post Stories, we do so, all excited about an interlude that just happened , a fantasy or a memoir we would like to share.
We do so ,knowing if it get read there is a possibility of being ridiculed and made fun of.
If someone does make a comment,I for one is far to grateful that someone took the time to read my thoughts my memoirs and experiences.I go and read their comments and that makes or breaks my decision to post again or not.
I personally also think people should make an effort to check spelling,and how you say things. BUT not everyone does, and that is a pity.
Not many people have the ability to make things sound exciting.
If you do have that ability,you have me chewing nails to read to the very last sentence .and to look for more of that persons posts.
I thought we read any *story* at our own peril, if we like it we say so, if we think it is not to good we keep quiet and MAKE no comments.
If we think it is some how not up to standard, we can say so,with out insulting that person!!
But I would never insult the person,who took the time to write something for us to read, even if it is below my own standard.
I think we should all try and be more tolerant ,Not EVERYONE is very good with words and how we want to say something.
We can say how we feel and say what we think of the *story* but we can still treat the posting person with dignity.
So what I am trying to say here is, if you do not like something , rather do NOT say anything than INSULT that person.
I think that is really crass and NOT very nice.
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Quote by Pussinboots1
When we post Stories, we do so, all excited about an interlude that just happened , a fantasy or a memoir we would like to share.
We do so ,knowing if it get read there is a possibility of being ridiculed and made fun of.
If someone does make a comment,I for one is far to grateful that someone took the time to read my thoughts my memoirs and experiences.I go and read their comments and that makes or breaks my decision to post again or not.
I personally also think people should make an effort to check spelling,and how you say things. BUT not everyone does, and that is a pity.
Not many people have the ability to make things sound exciting.
If you do have that ability,you have me chewing nails to read to the very last sentence .and to look for more of that persons posts.
I thought we read any *story* at our own peril, if we like it we say so, if we think it is not to good we keep quiet and MAKE no comments.
If we think it is some how not up to standard, we can say so,with out insulting that person!!
But I would never insult the person,who took the time to write something for us to read, even if it is below my own standard.
I think we should all try and be more tolerant ,Not EVERYONE is very good with words and how we want to say something.
We can say how we feel and say what we think of the *story* but we can still treat the posting person with dignity.
So what I am trying to say here is, if you do not like something , rather do NOT say anything than INSULT that person.
I think that is really crass and NOT very nice.
you are so right...respect is something you deserve with your attitude,actions and decisions...
Hi PiB! I totally agree with you! Insults are not exactly going to encourage a new writer to want to go to the trouble to write and post another story (I for one LOVE reading the stories posted here!).
At the same time, I am really amazed at how few people actually comment on stories that are posted (and I am one of the guilty parties!). Of the 18 000+ people on the site, maybe 500 have read the story, and then of those 500, maybe 2 or 3 actually post comments... But I agree, I would rather have fewer comments, where those are either positive praise or at least constructive criticism, than have someone insulting my writing. Fortunately up to now, all of the comments that I have received have been encouraging!! :-D
I think that you hit the nail on the head. I think your stories and comments are most probably the best on this site. Some people as you say have no command of the english language and no idea of diction. The only excuses i accept is someone trying where one realises that english is not their first language. The other thing on this site is the number of people who do not even have the manners to reply, even if the answer is Get lost. I live in anticipation of things getting better.
Warming the Bed
Not many members on this site use this forum. Indeed, I'm not sure how many even know it exists even though the button is right there at the top of the page. The horny bastards just want to go direct to the photos and perve.
You guys are correct. It's downright rude not to reply when you get "friended" or a message from another member. At least say something in return, even if it's just "not interested" or "not what we're looking for"
Tell me how we get more members to interact on the forum.
Warming the Bed
PIB, you are absolutely correct!
Erotic fiction stories and a description of real events, give us a picture of how other see situations/fantasies we may have but never have the courage to live out or ask for.
If you read them here or elsewhere, it may just prove to you that you are not alone or the first to think about something you like. So... keep on writing guys and girls...and its real nice if its done in a proper way for all to enjoy.
May there be many more stories and comments.... you are for sure not the only one who wish/dream/fantasise about something or just share your experiences.
Enjoy!
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Not many members on this site use this forum. Indeed, I'm not sure how many even know it exists even though the button is right there at the top of the page. The horny bastards just want to go direct to the photos and perve.
You guys are correct. It's downright rude not to reply when you get "friended" or a message from another member. At least say something in return, even if it's just "not interested" or "not what we're looking for"
Tell me how we get more members to interact on the forum.
Hi M&C,
Fully agree with you! Voyer1105 has also previously lamented how few people make use of the forum. At least on the forum one starts to get some sort of idea of what a person IS like, rather than by perving their pictures to just see what they LOOK like (although I must confess I quite enjoy "perving" PiB's pictures, because she changes them so often, and they are quality pictures which are so tastefully done!) (but I also feel that I have started to get to know something about PiB the person , from her many posts and stories and expression of ideas, and our exchanges of messages!).
I get the impression that many people are here only to see how quickly they can set up a date to get some sexual gratification, and perve the pics while waiting for it to happen! I reckon it's good to exercise the brain, as well as the genitals!!
And yeah, I've had a fair number of "no replies" to stuff I have posted, or messages sent to folks that I thought might be interested to chat about a particular topic... One just has to write it off to experience and move on!
I agree with you all
Joined this site just to see what was happening and maybe see something to introduce to my wife
By just using the forum I have met a number of people and became friends and had a lot of fun
As for perving pics I would post more if I had PIB's photographer to make me look so good, and yes always like reading her comments and deep nightime thoughts
