Are your approach and manner affecting your chances?

9 May 2014

What's a "wink" lol

9 May 2014

@irish.. play with your profile options a bit and just see what opens up.... I am sending you 2 winks.... ONE the one the wink the site sends out as the *standard* wink and them my modified one.... you can also do the same.... And just maybe LEE will sticky the forum that indicates on how to modify your wink and how to get an animated avatar in use next time around....

19 Jun 2014

The only thing we looking for is a nice white couple for longterm friendship with a bi lady for some fun . But its not so easy in Plet or Knysna it will be great to meet some nice clean day to day couple

14 Jan 2015

Think back to a prehistoric fact (unless your against science...and signs are evil) < --- syidt* Homo-erectus, our "ancestors", Had a couple of basic needs..shelter, food, pussy. Right. The primal instinct to sow our seed has always been there. And evolution has not been too kind to some of us...The basic urge, is still there....but the game has changed. Cant just "oe -oe" <- kak caveman sound. And increase the population. Perhaps proves evolution works backwards in some gene's....back then we had the common sense to clobber them over the head...nowadays, eish. Wait...That might come out wrong...Ive remembered clobbering unfortuanatley still happens. So ladies are for obvious reasons hesitant. The response can only be overwhelming. Than being said . I again urge them to continue the way the do...the STRONGEST shal prevail...in a way. Natural selection? Survival of the fittest...These also sound somewhat attached to the era of dinosaurs... Hmmm. Heres a picture of queen Victoria , as you were -----> (-) (-)

30 Jan 2015

@nerowp - have you met any of the people who visit your area? or do your playmates have to live in your town?

31 Jan 2015

@PIB send me the link to the thread you want sticky and I'll do it, darling! That's an interesting question LetsPlayinCPT, Actually it's worthy of a new thread I think.

4 Feb 2015

#Rant......I don't know why people want to see your pics(then you send them), but then chickens out to send to their pics? I think its extremely rude!!!!!! banghead

4 Feb 2015

We have an old fuck buddy, has been popping in for 14 years We sit and have a couple of drinks and then they start playing and off to the bedroom they go, I join in But it is all because he is so nice, have had many more but they have all disapeared

16 Dec 2015

This post discussion has been the most valuable so far on the forum for me. I would like to add to this post that, If people can make an effort to respond to a personal well thought message it at least feels respectful and kind. I always respond to messages in a way that is repectful. Anyway... if we dont get responses, move on. Life is to short to wait for people to respond. Eat ice- cream and move on ?

16 Feb 2016

For me, it's absolutely crucial that the person sending the message has read my profile. I don't put things in there to be rude or offensive, I put it in there to save time - both mine and yours. It also shows that you've shown an interest, and that you believe we are looking for the same things.

Nothing, but nothing puts me off more than an incomplete profile. We've spent time and energy making sure our profile is complete, including pics. Privacy or fear of exposure is no excuse - we were also worried about that, and that's why our pics are taken in such a way that we are not recognizable in them. We are all visual creatures. I need to see who I'm speaking to. simple as that.

As for lines that work - the moment I think it's a line, you've lost me. I wouldn't fall for one in a bar, and I won't fall for it here. Be open, be honest, and be yourself.

17 Feb 2016

For me, it's absolutely crucial that the person sending the message has read my profile. I don't put things in there to be rude or offensive, I put it in there to save time - both mine and yours. It also shows that you've shown an interest, and that you believe we are looking for the same things.

I see some of that was lost on the last person who commented on your profile. Kinda strengthens your point.

17 Feb 2016

For me, it's absolutely crucial that the person sending the message has read my profile. I don't put things in there to be rude or offensive, I put it in there to save time - both mine and yours. It also shows that you've shown an interest, and that you believe we are looking for the same things.

I see some of that was lost on the last person who commented on your profile. Kinda strengthens your point.

I know, right! It's a crying shame. Precious time wasted, and it sort of leaves a negative vibe before you even look at the profile.

18 May 2016

Good Morning, i have read your profile, and respect it, i just like to see if i like what i see before i will invest time , if you could add me to your private album it would greatly appreciated.
Regards

Its very polite but....ummm really???

19 May 2016

@hotwife1 - honestly I'd respond; "Since I can see from your message that you are not someone I would like to invest time on; I politely decline to add you to my private album"

19 May 2016

He's just being a totally smarmy prick! Trying to pretend he is "mr nice guy"! Just trying a different hook-up line to the more direct but equally objectionable "I want to get into your panties" version!

"...before I invest time" - indeed!!

19 May 2016

i would love to take the time to write a proper response but I don't want to invest anymore time for no rewards.

Kind rega.......

/Mike drop

25 Jun 2016

iv been told im to polite...which i take as a compliment...i think some woman are looking for bad boys....and thats up to them...good manners always matters to me

28 Jun 2016

Well I, for one, appreciate good manners. Nothing pisses me off faster than a 20 something, 870km away, sending me a first message which reads;

Hey baby! Let's get together so you can handle my cock, I'm ready to Fuck you hard! me, (insert cell number), and I'll let you suck my monster cock! Mwah! "

And it's that "mwah! " that absolutely makes me want to wretch and claw at his eyes! What are you? A drag queen with a monster cock?

(Hideous shudders! )

29 Jun 2016

lol, I've never seen anyone complain about too polite. Personally I think it's silly to amend your approach to appeal to the bad boy fetish.

Mwah

10 Jul 2016

Hallo ek sal laaik om jou better te leer ken as ek mag. mwha hoop da is net fun dae wat voor le.