I have a question:
Can anyone here say they are genuinely truly, completely and absolutely content with where they are in life, what they have and where they are headed?
Do you live without concern for the future or affect from your past? Do you know exactly what you want and how to get it?
Are you well respected, well loved and in good health and mental state?
I am VERY interested to hear if anyone here feels this way in themselves..
Please note this is NOT a question you can truthfully and accurately answer for your partner - there is no way you could possibly know the answer for them.
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Orgasminator
One that question, and i answer on myself my partner can answer what she want,
I couldt not answer yes on any off the questions, my answer are a No. And have reasons every why my answer are No.
If i wouldt anser yes i wouldt lie to myself.
Quote by LeeEC
I have a question:
Can anyone here say they are genuinely truly, completely and absolutely content with where they are in life, what they have and where they are headed?
Do you live without concern for the future or affect from your past? Do you know exactly what you want and how to get it?
Are you well respected, well loved and in good health and mental state?
I am VERY interested to hear if anyone here feels this way in themselves..
Please note this is NOT a question you can truthfully and accurately answer for your partner - there is no way you could possibly know the answer for them.
Hmmmmm now this is an interesting question and topic.
I have found, that it human nature to be greedy, to want and crave more. Because of this I do not believe anyone is ever truly happy. People will have moments where they are truly in bliss. When that effect wears off then there is always something more, something bigger and better that becomes the next goal.
My self, overall, I am very happy in my life. There will always be a few things that I want improving on, but as a whole I happy with everything I have, where I am and where I am heading.
Sexlightened
Well that is a very broad question
I dont think anyone knows where they are heading we all think we want to go some place but there is always the issue of money, timing, morals, luck ( good or bad) and other factors that keeps on changing
We might be happy for a moment or a day or a brief second - but that is what you must make of it. That brief moment you must make it the most happiest moment you had in your life
So that can count for good mental state - health well that is all again depending on many factors - you can cross the street get knocked over and there goes that gym body and all the healthy things down the drain - so again going back to the mental state
You are what you think you are
Respect is earned - even if people not agree with you at least they can and will respect you if you earned it
So state of happiness is all mental - you can have allot of money but unhappy and so goes for the rest too, health, living style and and
Yes I am happy and possibly be sad too but I enjoy what I have today and now - tomorrow I hope it will be even better, and I would not mind suffering in luxury.....so I will be just happy to suffer ha ha
Casanova
Quote by LeeEC
I have a question:
Can anyone here say they are genuinely truly, completely and absolutely content with where they are in life, what they have and where they are headed?
Do you live without concern for the future or affect from your past? Do you know exactly what you want and how to get it?
Are you well respected, well loved and in good health and mental state?
I am VERY interested to hear if anyone here feels this way in themselves..
Please note this is NOT a question you can truthfully and accurately answer for your partner - there is no way you could possibly know the answer for them.
To be honest I am not content with my life as there is still so much I want to accomplish. As for the what I've got well 2 or 3 more inches wouldn't hurt.
.Where I'm headed no one knows but I do hope in the right direction.
I constanly look toward the future and believe that whatever happened in the past is all learning experiences. What you should or shouldn't do in the future. I know exactly what I want and I do have a 1 year, 3 year and 5 year plan to work towards to.
I hope I'm respected as I respect others and believe I have earned it through hard work and determination.
With good health I wish it could be better as being diagnosed with pancreatitis recently. My mental state there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
Life is what you make of it.
Who can stand up and say that they are happy...have enough and are content to be where they are and have no concerns about the future....
I for one can not do so....I am not unhappy or happy....I am mostly content.
I am fortunate to have a person in my life who understands me and gives me LOTS of free time and rope to do as I please,not many have such a partner.
I worked and still work my ass of for everything I OWN AND HAVE. Nothing was ever given to me.
I am very aware, how intimidated it feels and is, to *grow older*..it is a painful and uncertain time, as your body dies around your *for ever feeling young*spirit
I can only answer from day to day...
I am blessed to have a painless day,to have the use of all my limbs (well sorta) I am blessed to see and hear and smell and taste, to be alive, I am blessed to have a roof over my head, I am blessed to have a work...and food every day.....
Today I am blessed......
Casanova
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This morning I am very happy, my wife jumped me at 4 37 this morning
Let us hear some details. :grin:
Casanova
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Cant give to many details but when she wakes up horny, around snakes her sexy hand and she fiddles with me untill I cant ignore her anymore and then the fun begins, me on my side she on her back and we scissor for a slow pomp
Nice! It leaves us with having to fill the blank spots. Good on you.
Q1: Can anyone here say they are genuinely truly, completely and absolutely content with where they are in life, what they have and where they are headed?
No, I'm not (including all adjectives above!) content! I know where I'm headed, but (sjeesh!) all the adjustments I've to make to stay on track keeps me busy!
Q2: Do you live without concern for the future or affect from your past?
I'm definitely concentrate on how I live today because experience show that it will have a huge effect on the results I'm going to get tomorrow! The past? I learn from them and then build a ('moerse') bridge and get over it! How many times in the past .... was it the past that kept me marking time (on the same spot!) ...... I learned to get over it very fast but to the irritation of my loved ones, thet still want to ponder - NOT ME anymore!!
Q3: Do you know exactly what you want and how to get it?
I (think ... ;-) ) know exactly what I want! Getting it? HaHaHa! Life happens to us all the time and I have to do 'da life dance all da time'!
Q4: Are you well respected, well loved and in good health and mental state?
Respected & loved? I would like to think so, as I only have other people's responses /reactions to evaluate this - and as long as I keep working smart - especially when I'm with people - it can only improve!
My philosophy regarding health & mental - if I can look after myself in the first 50 years of my life, my body will look after me for the next 50 years! When I look at what happens to the body after the age of 60 - with all the 'natural' ageing processes that just happens, I would not like to get too old!!
O yes! Happiness is a mental / emotional state that are mainly controlled by what we think, say and do!!
Keep your thoughts, words and actions in check and voila!!!
Words? We have more words available in our vocabulary to get into a negative state than into a positive one!!!
So? Pay attention in class!
