I just got a message from a couple. We have never chatted or anything, I have no idea what they look like and they only know what I look like because of my pics on profile.
Anyway, the message in basic terms was the "wife" requesting that I organise with her to meet her hubby and do stuff on him, so he can go home and tell her about it. Cool I get that they into role play or she is or that she finds the idea of him with someone else a turn on, but really??? She requested that I message her for the details, didn't introduce herself or anything, just hit me with the whole fantasy thing and expects me to bite?
I am a single chick yes, but I'm not an appliance or a prop that you just pull out to use when you need. I still believe in a good intro, some good conversation. A date or two for you to see if there physical attraction and then from there establish if things were go further. That goes for couples and single dudes. I also want to say that some couples also use single men in this aspect. Yes swinging is originally couple swapping. Singles have been included for 3somes or gang bangs etc. We are not meat, show us respect( men and women) don't expect us to jump at an opportunity. Flattery, flirting, politeness and mannerisms go a long way. So, message me and if I find you intriguing we can meet and make plans from there. I'm not *this is my opinion, there might be other singles that don't feel the same.
why do one join the site? To make friends and have some fun too. More than half the profiles, especially couples and ladies that request single or bi men are only a fantacy. Not a single one of them are serious enough. Why not chanange your profile requirements then to couples or ladies. Pics too are old pics. There are the regulars such as blue andyourself. Yes, awesome persons and here to make friends and have some fun by the way. Fun also not neccessary means immediate sex. Meet first and see if there is some kind of connection, then the rest will follow. Maybe this site is not for me.... For those happy to be here, enjoy. REMOVED BY ADMIN Thanx for a good post
you a woman indeed but an open one. You speak your mind and is honest unlike most on the site. You are just yourself and do not pretend. I do not know you but can read between the lines that you are a lady with integraty.
Back on topic
Nice post kitty, pity the people you are addressing won't read this.
That brings up memories. We once received message that had no greeting whatsoever but had a list of accomplishments the sender wished to complete. We were to meet the Mrs at a club, near the club is a hotel, we would start playing with the Mrs and leave her there naked for her lover to come in when we left. In all honesty the first thing that popped into my mind is. Oh my goodness. These people want to steal us. Oh hell no... I think people refuse to put thought into the message and somehow think so me of us are escorts or something. Some messages people send are well and truly scary if you ask me..
I've also been receiving strange messages too.
Randomly - one liners - from the same 'couple'.
First one was something along the lines of "we're in your town, dress up would be fun"
Dress up isn't our thing - role play isn't even our thing so... WTF?
Then out of the blue - "I hate family drama of the holidays"
Then something like - "Do you know how to play strip poker?"
To which I replied "this isn't something that Site moderators can really help members with, try posting your question in the forums for answers"
I haven't got any more messages... maybe they got the msg?
I never get messages :sad:
I sometimes wonder if the above messages come from couples nervous about swinging and are trying to get into a meet before they can have time to back out.
IE, the bandage approach, quick and painful.
Oh and also couples and men that just send album invites, no messages no intro but willing to show their insides. Sigh, I didn't know I'd ever say this, but I'm tired of seeing vjayjays and penis. Lol
Nope, can't say I get any vjayjay album invites. Penis invites sure but never v.
Sounds like a man trying for a jolly, the should be named, a woman would be more gentle in her approach
