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Any real single ladies that actually play alone

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Something that me and hubby have notice of late and would love to know if it's just us or is other couples and single guys picking up on it

We have seen lately that 90% of single ladies profiles on Sh are actually couples and we have no problem with that but then why not make a couple profile why have a single profile if you never going to play alone we know of a couple who has a couple profile and have single profiles on sh but thats coz dey also play alone and if you contact them on dey single profile dey know it's to play alone

Would love some feedback on this would love to hear from the ladies who have single profiles but are couples

Just to add to the above we got some advice a while back to look on dating websites such as tinder for single ladies and the funny part Is the last 3 FFM we had have been off those websites

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Just to add to the above we got some advice a while back to look on dating websites such as tinder for single ladies and the funny part Is the last 3 FFM we had have been off those websites

Out experience is......................... after a few years here, we have met up with and played with 2 single ladies here. On various dating websites and apps, we have met and played with 10X that number.

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Just to add to the above we got some advice a while back to look on dating websites such as tinder for single ladies and the funny part Is the last 3 FFM we had have been off those websites

Out experience is......................... after a few years here, we have met up with and played with 2 single ladies here. On various dating websites and apps, we have met and played with 10X that number.

Yip could not agree more and it's seems like it's getting harder to get a single female on Sh

May ask what are the websites you use if you can DM us

Yes I was also wondering what sites you use..could you pm us...have a great weekend

I am but I won't play alone with a couple again. Too much drama and issues. I prefer one on one with guy or joining couple if I have a partner.

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I am but I won't play alone with a couple again. Too much drama and issues. I prefer one on one with guy or joining couple if I have a partner.

So a few ladies we spoken to that's what dey say too much drama could you please give examples of the drama

I also think it's bad to think every couple is the same and also think that's wer chatting and meeting before playing is important to see if the will be drama

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I am but I won't play alone with a couple again. Too much drama and issues. I prefer one on one with guy or joining couple if I have a partner.

@ Kitty we can mediate for you and fadnad 😂😂😂. We will make sure there is no drama 🤣🤣

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I am but I won't play alone with a couple again. Too much drama and issues. I prefer one on one with guy or joining couple if I have a partner.

@ Kitty we can mediate for you and fadnad 😂😂😂. We will make sure there is no drama 🤣🤣

LOL we can make it a big party 😈💦

I would feel better with couples, we are a couple and we said playing alone is totally a no go... Some people get insecure when singles join them... can't explain it properly, but personal preference is couple with couple...

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Yes I was also wondering what sites you use..could you pm us...have a great weekend

Would you please also pm me the names of the websites and apps that you had the most success on.

I would also like to know what sites or apps you use please PM me. Thanks.

I'm a single woman, couples are a problem at times. Some ladies have issues of insecurities at times and that becomes a problem. Some couple profiles are a problem too, the lady is always on some break ...

So I prefer to chat to the lady to establish rules, boundaries and an understanding of expectations. I prefer single males more.

We are new here and finding it very slow going because we are only comfortable with a single lady. We are not in a rush though because we want to find the right person for our first FFM experience. We are not looking for a couple to join us. Lexi will be choosing the person and also setting the rules about how much I can join in. She needs to be relaxed and confident about what is happening and with whom

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We are new here and finding it very slow going because we are only comfortable with a single lady. We are not in a rush though because we want to find the right person for our first FFM experience. We are not looking for a couple to join us. Lexi will be choosing the person and also setting the rules about how much I can join in. She needs to be relaxed and confident about what is happening and with whom

Try Tinder

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Try Tinder

It's Soo scary but his not wrong tinder is easier the is alot women on tinder that are open to it

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There are a single ladies on the site. I've met a few over the years. Statistically speaking the chances of connecting with one are quite low. It's much like the story with single men. Some absolutely kill it and some get no hits after multiple years on the site

So true...im glad I found 2 gems on this site I got to know and play with...honestly single women are here but need a lot of enticing...what I have noticed...if you not vouched,people steer clear from you...post pics and videos...you get noticed very quick