My lady works with a serious hottie. She has had a photo shoot published in the FHM and is entered into the "Home Grown Honies" competition this Thursday @ Tiger Tiger. My girl has gotten quite friendly with her and they spend quite a bit of time together. This girl is very open minded and from my observations, I think there is a very good chance that she "may" join us for some fun. My better half also believes she would take the leap as she has once asked how she feels about threesomes: She answered that she thinks it could be fun and she may try it while she is single. We have dropped subtle hints and she does not seem "weirded out" at all.
Problem is that we just assume this and truthfully, we don't really know for certain. Do we take the plunge and ask out right? Do we wait a bit longer and see what develops? How would we suggest something to her? Any advice on how to approach this will be greatly appreciated.
I say again: This girl has been featured in the FHM magazine and is in the 100 sexiest women of South Africa competition by invite... So I do not need to explain how amazingly gorgeous this girl is. We have to play our cards right or miss the opportunity of a lifetime.
Please help??
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Any advice welcome...
OOOOHhhhhhkay!!!! I have infront of me the LIST of the 100 ldies who you mentioned...soooooo all I need to perv, is the ladies name via Private mail PLEASE!!!!
Back to your question.
If I read correctly between the lines You have met this lady??and both you and your lady get along with her and there is chemistry?
Something I want to ask is there is always little subtle hints when a lady is interested. As you most likely know!
Does she look you in the eye and flip her hair, give you and your lady little touches?? Sit with her body *open* to you?? By that I mean body language as is easy to *read* a closed body is slightly turned from you or crossed arms over the chest area or if her legs are crossed they are crossed away from you and she might lean backwards a bit and nearly no eye contact..that is a CLOSED body.
Anything open is the opposite...towards you. she might be leaning very slightly towards you very very slightly...
Now if this is true you might take a leap to ask her for that 3 some.
BUT I would let your lady do the asking...
do this over a period if not done already...
By *accidentally*touching the lady herself, looking her in the eye, stroking her arm little subtle things as not to alarm her.
She might just mention when she is alone with the *sexy one* that both of you *like her and find her very sexy*
Then mention that both of you have some really sexy fantasies.
Discuss some sexual fantasy like ? blindfolds or telling about a sexy massage or telling her about your visit to the lap dancers.
Then when if the lady seems interested Take her out as a couple NO 2nd gent !!!!!! to make it a 4 defeat the purpose of the seduction....then let your lady invite her home for a possible sexual interlude with both of you or just her if so inclined and you wait......then on a second occasion make it a 3 some.
BUT the lady might also just like to *have* you and your lady has to wait...will she be willing to do so??
Reading your posting again seems you both have done the above already.....sooooooooo
GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!
Sex God
In my view, the first four words of your posting answer your question . . . . .
"My lady works with" . . . .
Maybe just give a little consideration to your "senses" being off on the ladies open mindedness. If any approach goes South, you lady still has to work the the Lady . . . . .
Been busy on a similar project, just on a more permanent scale, The Queen is spot on with all she says, as usual, the essence of it, according to my 'research', is that your lady will have to be the seductress in this deal and You will have to take the back seat initially, my next step is to interrogate my beautiful intelligent 22 year old bi/lesbian sister in law to find out exactly what moves girls employ get her out of her clothes.
good luck!
Sex God
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@SDMR true the ladies work together, but how many people has *flings* relationships and even married to each other while working together.
The only thing that really would be bad if the lady is a gossip.
yes @PIB that is in fact a reality, I was just offering my own opinions to Stamina as this is a slightly different scenario to a standard office fling.
All great advice so far. Puss, I have covered most of the bases you mentioned... Still waiting for those "subtle hints" from her though. It is very possible that I am missing them so I will look harder. We will be "partying" with her tomorrow night and I believe if we have a shot, then tomorrow will be the night to find out. Drinks and dancing and fun is always relaxing so if she is "willing" it will be tomorrow night.
SDMR, I have given careful thought to what you say. I understand the risks so I have taken the back seat and my significant other has the drivers seat now...
Puss, I would love to tell you who this is and yes, if you read that mag then you will know. I unfortunately have to protect her privacy. She may well turn out to be a freaky little bi mynx but I still have the utmost respect for her and should she one day have attained fame as a top model, then this kind of thing would be the last thing she needs ruining her progress. She is working very hard towards a professional career and from the looks of things so far, she will get there in a year or two.
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
All great advice so far. Puss, I have covered most of the bases you mentioned... Still waiting for those "subtle hints" from her though. It is very possible that I am missing them so I will look harder. We will be "partying" with her tomorrow night and I believe if we have a shot, then tomorrow will be the night to find out. Drinks and dancing and fun is always relaxing so if she is "willing" it will be tomorrow night.
SDMR, I have given careful thought to what you say. I understand the risks so I have taken the back seat and my significant other has the drivers seat now...
Puss, I would love to tell you who this is and yes, if you read that mag then you will know. I unfortunately have to protect her privacy. She may well turn out to be a freaky little bi mynx but I still have the utmost respect for her and should she one day have attained fame as a top model, then this kind of thing would be the last thing she needs ruining her progress. She is working very hard towards a professional career and from the looks of things so far, she will get there in a year or two.
Stamina, get real dude . . . if your threesome happens, the very first public picture of this bird is going to be followed by a press release from saying "I did her" "I did her" . . . . . So privacy is out the window for this lady . . . .
Quote by SDMR
All great advice so far. Puss, I have covered most of the bases you mentioned... Still waiting for those "subtle hints" from her though. It is very possible that I am missing them so I will look harder. We will be "partying" with her tomorrow night and I believe if we have a shot, then tomorrow will be the night to find out. Drinks and dancing and fun is always relaxing so if she is "willing" it will be tomorrow night.
SDMR, I have given careful thought to what you say. I understand the risks so I have taken the back seat and my significant other has the drivers seat now...
Puss, I would love to tell you who this is and yes, if you read that mag then you will know. I unfortunately have to protect her privacy. She may well turn out to be a freaky little bi mynx but I still have the utmost respect for her and should she one day have attained fame as a top model, then this kind of thing would be the last thing she needs ruining her progress. She is working very hard towards a professional career and from the looks of things so far, she will get there in a year or two.
Stamina, get real dude . . . if your threesome happens, the very first public picture of this bird is going to be followed by a press release from saying "I did her" "I did her" . . . . . So privacy is out the window for this lady . . . .
:lol: :lol: @ Stamina
SADLY you think I am someone who will run to the media and get a few bucks for some skinnering. :sad:
BUT, as I know all of the above,is exactly the reason why I asked for the ladies name in PM and not published on here.
I do however respect your view as there is some people who will make a BIG deal out of this little interlude should it happen. so you are right, best is to keep it quiet.
Just so you know...now all 100 is suspect untill I have time to browse all 100 It might come down to 50 and then some. LMAO SNEAKY man.
