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was once like you...kept to myself after the break up as she left for another guy...I felt as if there was something wrong with me..so for 2 years I kept to myself..after the 2nd year my best mate got tired of my attitude...and as things just fell into place..his wife's sister came to visit from out of town...I pushed her away as I thought something was wrong with me...mate you will be fine...take as much time as you need...