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I have had contact with people, male and female, between 16 and 30 years and good fun was had by all Now the funny thing is, there is some men our age that I have wanted to meet but no luck Any comment
ek kom agter dat baie mense kla oor ouder dom. maar ouderdom is net n getal. ek ondervind dat daar een of twee is wat wel ontmoet. maar die ander wil nie. my vraag is dit. speel hulle of is dit n ding van hulle kyk maar net wat daar is?
I never meet people in my age bracket.
Quote by Mike_Pta
I never meet people in my age bracket.

They also avoid you? lol
Well I think that it should not be a factor in anything, but unfortunately there are considerations to be made like of instance I have a 22 years son so personally do not want to be involved with someone in that group I have no problem chatting being friendly etc but to me just a bit to close to the bone, likewise with a older person of my parents age. But I have realised that there are lots of guys who think the milf thing hot, which is cool and a get ego boost but think when it comes down to it my mind gets the better of me
Ah yes @skinnymax I am right there with you. I also feel quite uncomfortable with the idea of younger than 23 & older than 60 for similar reasons. .. I also find that I can't really connect mentally with people in those groups either... There are of course exceptions. . But so far I've only found one. But back to Voyeurs OP... Why do you think that's a problem @Voyeur?
Wish I knew, maybe they know me and are shy
Oh that's possible. It's happened a couple of times that people back out with us because they think there's a chance that we already know each other. ... which is, I think, quite silly, because it might be easier to actually connect with people who you already know, skip the "could we be friends? " questions coz you probably already know the answer smile Of course I suppose there's always the possibility that they've guessed right as to who we are and they don't want to shag us lol
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Ah yes @skinnymax I am right there with you. I also feel quite uncomfortable with the idea of younger than 23 & older than 60 for similar reasons. ..
I also find that I can't really connect mentally with people in those groups either... There are of course exceptions. . But so far I've only found one.

Yes, I'm within range biggrin
By the skin of my teeth but it counts
The best thing of age it bring wisdom and make it easier to handle the youth
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The best thing of age it bring wisdom and make it easier to handle the youth

Your sentence makes a lot of sense @Adonis. And yes, age helps with sommany things when it comes to youth.
Only thing is, I also find that as I get older I also seem to be finding a lot less tolerance of some of the ways of our youth, so many of them just do not have the basic necessity of actually growing up
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Yes, I'm within range biggrin
By the skin of my teeth but it counts

lol :lol: :lol:
Making me laugh gets you extra points!
Well @mike after having met you you are the typical youngster so perhaps I shouldnt be so quick to judge
for me age is just a number when it comes to the ladies :twisted: Joyrider any age is go for me (just not under age)
Mature players will only see a man or a woman - regardless of age....