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Eish I have now written 2 mails, both in the middle and BOTH just disappeared, please discard them if you get them and I might retry tomorrow morning you can mail and ask if there is more you want to know.
BUT in the meantime google safe words and google bare handed spanking /sensual play methods/ using of blindfolds/ how to tie someone to a bed/chair and rope play/ peg play/ using of cold and heat for sensual play/ Also google why you should know about her medical history (goes with playing safe)
The above is the more *innocent* play methods but there is TONS of such methods and things to use, you just need to read up on it. and these days everything is available by googling.
The kinky stuff you might watch on porn sites is not really real and might even be harmful.
Also plan your evening of kink and have everything you want to use handy.
Do not do anything that makes you uncomfortable
Enjoy yourself..