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**** NO SINGLE MEN PLEASE****

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Have you been hassled by Single guys to the extent you are considering deleting your profile?

What the hell is wrong with guys cant't they read !!!! :fuckinghell::-x Our profile clearly says no Single Men yet we are constantly hassled by idiots who quite obviously can not read. If you don't have the decency to read our profile then we won't be friends and as for guys cheating on wives / partners you are really pathetic if you really need a shag so badly go get some at home or hire a pro. At the point now where we will rather delete our profile and move on.....
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What the hell is wrong with guys cant't they read !!!! :fuckinghell::-x
Our profile clearly says no Single Men yet we are constantly hassled by idiots who quite obviously can not read.
If you don't have the decency to read our profile then we won't be friends and as for guys cheating on wives / partners you are really pathetic if you really need a shag so badly go get some at home or hire a pro.
At the point now where we will rather delete our profile and move on.....

Just block them, and its not just single men, probably half of the approaches we get is from people who have not read our profile. You will find the same no matter which site you are on.
As you guys have noticed Most single guys dont read ... The answer is simple.. you have a block function on your mail and in the chatrooms .. USE it .. I have noticed over the years most "single" men do the quantity over quality thing .. they will send out as many winks or copy and pasted mails in a day as they can ... and if they get one or two hits thy are happy. Ooops hang on this is my single male profile.. Should i have put my 2 cents worth in .. Well i a sure someone will have something to say about me not being able to read ..
@ Magic hands :eeek::eeek::eeek: Yup you should have used your couple profile...... Not that I know what the new profile name is...as I have not met the NEW Mrs./ Ms. as yet.......rolleyesdunno:dunno: Just teasing. I think that if you are single and you hang out here in the forums Then you are *halfway there already* to getting attentions from anyone....being it couples or single gents or females.....cause it means YOU CAN READ. My own opinion.....*couples* are just as guilty!!!!!They do the very same, believe me !!!!!!! It all is vice versa....or a constant ying-yang or an infinity circle....... That is why there is a button to use to select who you are willing to receive mail from!!!!
NOT AT ALL - I WANT single men to contact us - lots and lots and lots of them.... I shag the great ones and spank the rude and badly mannered ones (actually I just ban them but it's the thought that counts :twisted: )
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@ Magic hands :eeek::eeek::eeek: Yup you should have used your couple profile...... Not that I know what the new profile name is...as I have not met the NEW Mrs./ Ms. as yet.......rolleyesdunno:dunno:
Just teasing.
I think that if you are single and you hang out here in the forums Then you are *halfway there already* to getting attentions from anyone....being it couples or single gents or females.....cause it means YOU CAN READ.
My own opinion.....*couples* are just as guilty!!!!!They do the very same, believe me !!!!!!! It all is vice versa....or a constant ying-yang or an infinity circle.......
That is why there is a button to use to select who you are willing to receive mail from!!!!

Agreed, couples are just as guilty of not reading profiles.
Is this just for playing or do the couples not want to be contacted at all ?not to say "hi" or "great profile" or "read your story really enjoyed it " whatever the case maybe .does it mean at no level do you wish to interact with "undesirables" ?
Ash - some guys think that sending you a message saying Nice Tits!!!! or asking when we can f@ck is acceptable. But those are few and far between luckily and we have the option of the ignore button We wouldn't leave because of single guys
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Is this just for playing or do the couples not want to be contacted at all ?not to say "hi" or "great profile" or "read your story really enjoyed it " whatever the case maybe .does it mean at no level do you wish to interact with "undesirables" ?

would say that means no single men should contact them under any circumstance
I think if you don't want to PLAY with single men you should be explicit but not get upset if a person just compliments you on your nice profile. If a person doesn't want ANY contact AT ALL from single parties - you need to state that CLEARLY and explicitly. "I don't want to play with single males" is not the same thing as "Don't contact me even if you think my arse is hot a feel the need to tell me so!" If someone sends me a compliment I say thanks. If they try to then engage me on the basis that now we have 'spoken' despite the fact that they do not meet the requirements set out in our profile (if you're a 'single male' you actually have to be SINGLE to meet with us) I point out that reading the profile write up fully and taking note of the contents (people don't write stuff just to fill the box) will considerably reduce the rate of negative responses to their efforts. Usually this ends the conversation (and makes my husband mad because he thinks I'm being rude... though to be honest I'm really not sure how else to react to someone who blatantly ignores what I've said).
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Usually this ends the conversation (and makes my husband mad because he thinks I'm being rude... though to be honest I'm really not sure how else to react to someone who blatantly ignores what I've said).

Well another way is to actually get rude and tell then to f*** off lol , but it has not been proven to work 100% of the time as sometimes they (not single males necessarily) think that "off" is interchangeable with "me/us". Must add that the lack of proof is due to the block option being used before it gets to that point :lol:
I just want to point out that couples aren't that great either. About 2-3 weeks ago I had a couple send me message, after swopping about 5 messages they asked me to be at their place at 19:00 (it was around 17:30 when they sent the message). I said I already had plans but we can do drinks the following week. That was the end of the convo, I didn't get a reply or anything, so apparently I was their no-charge prostitute for the night. Then I've had couples ask for album invites after I've replied to their first message. Maybe I should start a thread "why are single men treated like cheap prostitutes" And yes I read the title, Playcouple and Lee are welcome to decide who gets to spank me ;)
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I just want to point out that couples aren't that great either. About 2-3 weeks ago I had a couple send me message, after swopping about 5 messages they asked me to be at their place at 19:00 (it was around 17:30 when they sent the message). I said I already had plans but we can do drinks the following week. That was the end of the convo, I didn't get a reply or anything, so apparently I was their no-charge prostitute for the night. Then I've had couples ask for album invites after I've replied to their first message. Maybe I should start a thread "why are single men treated like cheap prostitutes"
And yes I read the title, Playcouple and Lee are welcome to decide who gets to spank me ;)

nope, you'll enjoy that to much.
Have we by any-chance slightly hijacked this thread?