What the hell is wrong with guys cant't they read !!!! :fuckinghell::-x
Our profile clearly says no Single Men yet we are constantly hassled by idiots who quite obviously can not read.
If you don't have the decency to read our profile then we won't be friends and as for guys cheating on wives / partners you are really pathetic if you really need a shag so badly go get some at home or hire a pro.
At the point now where we will rather delete our profile and move on.....
As you guys have noticed Most single guys dont read ... The answer is simple.. you have a block function on your mail and in the chatrooms .. USE it .. I have noticed over the years most "single" men do the quantity over quality thing .. they will send out as many winks or copy and pasted mails in a day as they can ... and if they get one or two hits thy are happy.
Ooops hang on this is my single male profile.. Should i have put my 2 cents worth in .. Well i a sure someone will have something to say about me not being able to read ..
NOT AT ALL - I WANT single men to contact us - lots and lots and lots of them....
I shag the great ones and spank the rude and badly mannered ones (actually I just ban them but it's the thought that counts :twisted: )
Is this just for playing or do the couples not want to be contacted at all ?not to say "hi" or "great profile" or "read your story really enjoyed it " whatever the case maybe .does it mean at no level do you wish to interact with "undesirables" ?
Ash - some guys think that sending you a message saying Nice Tits!!!! or asking when we can f@ck is acceptable.
But those are few and far between luckily and we have the option of the ignore button
We wouldn't leave because of single guys
I think if you don't want to PLAY with single men you should be explicit but not get upset if a person just compliments you on your nice profile. If a person doesn't want ANY contact AT ALL from single parties - you need to state that CLEARLY and explicitly. "I don't want to play with single males" is not the same thing as "Don't contact me even if you think my arse is hot a feel the need to tell me so!"
If someone sends me a compliment I say thanks. If they try to then engage me on the basis that now we have 'spoken' despite the fact that they do not meet the requirements set out in our profile (if you're a 'single male' you actually have to be SINGLE to meet with us) I point out that reading the profile write up fully and taking note of the contents (people don't write stuff just to fill the box) will considerably reduce the rate of negative responses to their efforts.
Usually this ends the conversation (and makes my husband mad because he thinks I'm being rude... though to be honest I'm really not sure how else to react to someone who blatantly ignores what I've said).
I just want to point out that couples aren't that great either. About 2-3 weeks ago I had a couple send me message, after swopping about 5 messages they asked me to be at their place at 19:00 (it was around 17:30 when they sent the message). I said I already had plans but we can do drinks the following week. That was the end of the convo, I didn't get a reply or anything, so apparently I was their no-charge prostitute for the night. Then I've had couples ask for album invites after I've replied to their first message. Maybe I should start a thread "why are single men treated like cheap prostitutes"
And yes I read the title, Playcouple and Lee are welcome to decide who gets to spank me ;)