I get asked this a lot, so I decided to write about it.

I've been on here for over 10 years and met some great people and some not-so-great people. Had some mind-blowing experiences and some that I couldn't wait to end. Being a single guy on here most of the time, comes with its own set of challenges. The biggest question is what sets you aside from the thousands of other guys that are on here or what you can offer that others can't.

Vouches enhance your profile but can be seen as showing off. Also, some people don't like vouching as it's seen as a counter for the number of people they have been with and a basis for them to be labelled. Some people also play across colour lines, but their circle of friends don't approve of such play...... so vouching is not an option. I've played with singles and couples that still have "no crossing of colourlines" on their profiles.

Appearances are a personal preference. What may be doable for one, maybe the total opposite for others. Your, race, size, girth and body type ......... cant be something it is not. You can't please everyone. Just be yourself and if you tickle their fancy, you may get an invite. No matter how hot the profile is, stalking and sending numerous messages will just get you blocked or ignored.

I've been stood up many times by both singles and couples. That's just how it is, you won't know until it happens. Are they even real to start off??? Or just picture collectors and time wasters. Naming and shaming should be done, in my opinion. Be prepared to be catfished, meet people who are not who are on their profiles or single guys pretending to be a couple and then offer a sexual favour to say sorry. I've also get contacted by singles to join my encounters or request information about people based on the content I've posted. I've had many strange or unusual requests, each to their own, and it all depends if you are open to this new adventure/experience. I've contacted people who were unaware of the site/profile/content/contact information being shared here.

You get blocked or reported for no reason. Just move on, no point arguing. Been there, done that.

Couples can be demanding and rude on here. They can because it goes back to there being a lot of fish in the pool here. Doesn't make it acceptable, but I guess they can. They suggest last-minute meets, and if you can't, you get blocked. Even if you are an afterthought or they got stood up. Send this or that, or get blocked. Do this or that, or get blocked. You need to draw the line and move on unless you are a sucker for punishment.

Solicitation is still big here. People want cash, drugs etc for a meet or fun. I have recently been asked for 100k from a lady on here, and I've been asked to buy pictures/videos as a prerequisite to meet or even drugs to enhance the mood. If it sounds too good to be true, it usually is. Thankfully I managed to navigate out of an experience that could end up very differently.

Cleanliness and discretion are also not a given. As obvious as it may seem, it's not something practised by everyone. I've walked away from playdates due to hygiene or spent hours in the shower trying to scrub off what I may have contracted. I've had my content shared with others which explicitly identifies me, and I've also had my content sent to me as someone pretending to be me.

In Summary, I've met some amazing people all over the country and had some memorable, kinky and orgasmic experiences and I'm looking forward to the next 10 years to meet more like-minded individuals through this platform. To those that I've met, Thank You, and to those that I have not as yet, what's holding our meeting up?