There he was standing in front of me, in the kitchen I visited so many times during my childhood. I had no idea he was my best friends' cousin, but I knew I wanted him so I asked her if he would be keen to hook up...NSA. He said no...at first...😏

But let's rewind to the year before...2006

I was in my second year of studies, my college friend and I took the same bus home every day. We enjoyed chatting about my escapades on mxit and BBM. One day I saw this dark chocolate of a guy get in. I thought to myself, mmm never noticed you before but I wouldn't mind having a taste of that dark chocolate👅

He was a Matriculant but that didn't faze me...he was always surrounded by a few girls so I figured, he is "that" guy, the one so many girls liked at school.

Every day after that I would look out for him, stare at him for a while and fantasize about all the things I would do to him if he even looked in my direction. At times I would even say to my friend..."I will 'eet' that guy!". This watching and fantasizing went on for the whole year. He lived in my suburb but all I could do was sit and stare 🫣 because I didn't know where...

Now back to the kitchen...a year or so later

I just got my car and my mom went away for vacay so I was home alone for a week or two. I decided to pop in at my besties house so we could go for a drive. It was a Tuesday afternoon, I was shocked yet pleasantly surprised to see him standing there... Dark Chocolate. I wanted him and had nothing to lose by asking for that hook up...so I shot my shot.

My offer was refused, I decided, his loss...and left all thoughts of an encounter with him behind. I saw him again on the Wednesday still perving on that chocolate though 👅, then on Thursday the day before Good Friday, my friend decided perhaps we should all go out. Three guys, three girls. 4 of them were family 2 of us were not.

The third guy was his friend, this friend whom they named "Shane" was meant to be the hook up for my friend.

We ended up driving to his house to fetch them and while waiting for them...my patience was not very patient. Who do they think they are to make women wait😩. As they approached the car, I looked to see who was hitching a ride with us. They got in and introduced Shane, I looked at him in my review mirror and said: "You don't look like a Shane 🤔"
We laughed it off.

Off we went to a nearby pub for some dance and drinks. While driving I felt this intense sense that someone was staring at me, I wondered if it was Shane or DC. Shane was awfully quiet. When we arrived everyone got out except Shane. He was waiting for me to get out, but I needed to put on my shoes, so as I was standing bending over to tie the peep toe heels I had on, I could feel him scanning me up and down from behind. He continued to walk behind me as we entered the building. I felt his eyes on the back of my body. I was wearing some skinny jeans, a sheer knitted body tight top, and some bangles.

As we all sat round the table my friend whispers to me: "Do you see how he is staring at you? I think he likes you". I wasn't sure what to say because he was supposed to come there for her, but now he was staring at me and was conveniently playing musical chairs with DC so that he could end up seated next to me. The staring was intense, no verbal language but I knew what that stare was about 😏 and I started staring back.

DC picked up on this and probably got a bit jealous, because all of a sudden he changed his mind and told his cousin that if I still wanted that NSA then he is game. I decided to test him and his sudden change of heart by asking him to dance. We were on the dance floor, I'm questioning DC on why and I can still feel Shane's stare, piercing through the dark. I turned so I could see if he really was staring and yes he was...

Eventually I went to sit down again, this time I was starting to wander why he kept staring so I asked :

Why are you staring at me like that?

I already knew the answer, I just wanted to pretend I didn't know. And I wanted him to tell me what he wanted...

Him: Can I have one of your bangles?

Me: I know your name is not Shane and what voodoo shit do you want to do with my bangle?

He just stared and smiled. Eventually told me his real name, then I gave him one of my bangles😏

Afterwards I got up to go get something from my car, followed closely by DC and then "Shane". You see,  I decided on Tuesday that it was his loss so I had no intention of changing my mind about DC until he made an offer I couldn't refuse. I was wondering why they both followed me to the car, looking confused I asked what's up...

"Shane" had inserted himself into the equation somehow because all of a sudden DC suggested a threesome, Shane was just staring, a small grimace on his face and me wondering if they planned this shit😆. Either way I agreed because YOLO and it was my first threesome so definitely fucking YOLO...


who knew what a hook up it would turn out to be🙈

The Easter weekend was about to get lit💦