Attending swingers clubs as a single male is really difficult as most couples only play with other couples. Some couples chat with you nicely and others give you the cold shoulder. After chatting with a few other single guys at parties we estimated that we were invited to play around 30% of the time in Durban clubs. Cape Town is the opposite and i usually get invited to play around 70% of the time. After paying R400 to enter the club plus more on drinks it was becoming quite a futile experience. So i decided to host my own private parties in upmarket hotels. On one occasion i managed to rent a 5 bedroom house in Umhlanga for 1 night. I sent out some messages and managed to get 12 people confirm to attend. As with every party a few drop out at the last minute and this was no different. We ended up with 9 people for this party which is still quite a good number. 4 couples and myself. Guests started arriving around 8pm and by 9pm the party was ready to kick off. The house was upscale with a huge lounge boasting a good sound system and a bonus was the pool. As with most parties, people take a while to get going and i noticed that by 9.30 things were not moving along at all. I then decided that the only way to make things happen was to play my tried and trusted "30 seconds" game. The rules are simple, we use the cards only with the timer and each team has to guess all the answers on the card. Should a team not guess all the answers on the card they have to remove 1 item of clothing each. We split into guys vs the ladies and started. I always notice when playing this game that even those people who are not comfortable being naked in front of others find it much easier when the entire team has to lose clothes. The ladies were really good at this game and before long the guys were completely naked. Most of the guys were tipsy so we lost quite comfortably. Thankfully the ladies were good sports and disrobed too and then everyone was butt naked. The game could not have gone better. We dimmed the lights in the lounge and a full on techno party ensued. 9 butt naked people dancing in the low light, bumping into each other, hands going everywhere, drinks flowing and very little chit chat. It was a blast. After about 2 hours of dancing someone suggested we cool off in the pool. What a brilliant idea this was! Everyone jumped in and congregated in the shallow end. 1 couple started making out and then another and then everyone was making out with each others partners. I saw how this was turning out and quickly jumped out the pool to set up some foam mattresses in the lounge. I got everyone out and we made our way to the lounge and then it was ON. I never in my wildest dreams expected this party to turn into an orgy. Everyone was playing with everyone. No inhibitions, no issues, no drama. After a long session all 9 of us just lay there, spent and satisfied. What a night... Situations like this very rarely happen, where everything just lines up perfectly. This party had the perfect venue with the perfect group of people. I am already planning my next party and once Covid is over...its ON!!