This topic is all too well known and I believe there have been tons of questions surrounding “How do I handle his size?” , “Deep or just tickle me first?”, “Am I going to make a mess?”

These questions are natural and perfectly normal to ask. Anal sex is not a new form of a pleasure that just started yesterday, it has been practiced all over the world; and not just within the gay community, but some females love it too! It begins with a little rimming and a finger here and there and before you know it, he is inside you making you feel all sortsa sensations.

It is not, I repeat, it is not about the size. Big, small, enormous, toothpick, it does not matter. It can be enjoyed either way. It is all about being comfortable. Anal sex can hurt if partners do not take certain steps. The anus does not usually produce enough lubrication for comfortable anal sex, so it's important to find the lube that works for you, after all the one on the receiving end needs to be comfortable.

Your muscles are very important in this exercise and you will need to find ways to relax and trust that your partner knows what he is doing. I can understand that it is not easy considering that you think of all the things that can go wrong instead of patting yourself on the shoulder thanking yourself for doing such a wonderful job by douching, shaving and making that pretty asshole as presentable as possible!!! Do away with all the negatives that run like a hamster in your mind, and most importantly take your time.

Last words:

“Any form of sex that makes you feel uncomfortable, should not continue”