I have been pondering about this for a while now. Lets face it, we all here for some sort of escape, fun and good time. I feel that if you on the site and advertise, expect response. people will look at your profile and either leave or respond, if its not what you looking for say so. Some people do respond and communicate but then simply stop. Come folks we all adults here simply be polite and give the thumbs up or down. One can see when last you been on so by not replying i think is not on. It doesn't take much to be polite.
Hence the title Why are YOU here.