This isn’t a recollection of a sexual event.  This isn’t some story of some random sex act or of a wife that’s had her first threesome.  It’s merely a sharing of the love of a nude beach, in sunny South Africa… one we are all familiar with – Sandy Bay!  From the walk along the 20 minutes of Fynbos and Atlantic Ocean water, to the brilliance of the two major beach areas, to the rocky granitic outcrops and to the special scenery of the entire beach zone.  Most of us have been there, some more than others.  Some go for nudism.  Some go for the love of nature and being in tune with our environment.  Some go to be seen and others go to see as much nudity as possible.  We are all free.  When you decide to spend a day at a nude beach, you are saying that you are free to choose how to enjoy your freedom of choice, your nakedness, your body.  There’s the rocks to sit on, to lie against, to feel the heat against your back or tummy.  There’s the big open beach, to spread your body flat on the sand.  There’s the large tree washouts to lean against and be photographed by a loved one or a stranger.  Whatever you decide on the day, love it enjoy it, don’t be shy and enjoy being human.  We all have our own desires, our own expectations…  no judgement, no questions.  My wife and I have been to Sandy Bay several times this past summer… and each time we have enjoyed the chats with strangers, the openness to appreciating each other’s bodies, but without complication nor undesirable reactions.  We have asked random strangers to take a pic or two of us.  We have laid flat out for anyone to see our bodies, or for us to see theirs.  We have been lovers of nudity and of nudism.  Sandy Bay is a place to live, a place to enjoy each other without judgement.  Yes, there are elements that make it somewhat less favourable for newcomers… and that is certainly sad.  Men who make it uncomfortable for others.  My wish is that they stay away.  However, on choosing to visit Sandy Bay, it should also be appreciated that you are choosing it, and that it comes with all types of people…  my wish is that we respect people’s boundaries.  I know that’s a tough one, when there’s a lovely naked woman laying on the sand… but that’s my wish nonetheless.

There are so many people from Cape Town here, or from other parts of South Africa, who’s visited Sandy Bay.  What are your thoughts?  I don’t mind my wife being seen naked on the beach…  it’s exciting.  But done with respect.  Done with maturity.  Your thoughts?  Your sharing of experiences?