I have had some extremely hot dates from Swingers Heaven and some other sites, dates can be hot in that the person you meet is good looking. Others are hot in that the person you meet is also very naughty, and the best kind of hot date is when there is chemistry and spark between you, and you click right away. Mostly it is just fun to meet new people and get to know them a bit. It is fascinating to hear people’s stories and what lead them to that point… So, no recent hot dates due to Covid-19 but there are a few meetups in the past I like to remember. One of the best was a lady I met on a trip to Cape Town, it was very brief but extremely passionate, hot and steamy. I was on a work trip and staying in a hotel, so feeling bored I thought I would try message a few people on chat and see if I could find some fun in the Cape Town area, for 1st two nights on chat there wasn’t really anyone there who I clicked with but on the 3rd night I got chatting to Chantal, we started chatting around 7pm and it was 2am when we said good night! She was a lot of fun to talk to and we got along very well in the chatroom. I explained I was there on business and staying in a hotel, she told me she had a fantasy of going to a hotel room and finding a stranger waiting in a room for her, having wild sex and leaving without exchanging names. I have always found travel exciting, getting on a plane or train to go somewhere new, looking at the people around me and wondering where they are going, sitting in my seat hoping an attractive lady passenger will sit next me, hotels are also exciting to me, partly because it is part of that travel experience and partly because hotels have their own mystery and sense of adventure, in a hotel away from home you can become anyone you want to be, also I imagine all the sexy things that have happened and may be happening behind each door as I walk the corridors. This encounter happened in a time in my life when my marriage was not working out and things were starting to end. Being away from home in a hotel was one of the first times I got to experience the freedom of the lifestyle and live out some long-time fantasies. Anyway, as we chatted, she revealed quite a bit more about the erotic hotel room encounter she wanted. In her fantasy she would be dominated, spanked and tied up, then she wanted to be teased and ravaged while still bound. That really excited me as it was around the same time 50 shades had come out and I had become interested in BDSM. I had read some other stuff which had intrigued me, I was excited about the idea of spanking (in a sensuous way) and bondage but it was something that I had not yet had a chance to experiment with- apart some pretty vanilla stuff with blindfold and fun handcuffs. At the time I was married and if you have been married for a long time you can’t suddenly spring weird stuff on your spouse, so I had never experimented with that aspect of the erotic arts. I had always been excited by the idea of restraining my partner and teasing her again and again to the edge of orgasm but then denying her until she was begging for my cock. We chatted back and forth a bit (by then we had exchanged phone numbers) and started talking about meeting up. To be honest I still wanted to meet for a few drinks first and was nervous of meeting for the first time at my hotel room door, but she was adamant that was the way she wanted it. Time was running out as I was only there for a few more days and so being extremely horny I agreed to follow through with her plan. We agreed it would happen that night even though we had only spoken by text and neither of us had a good idea of what the other looked like. I texted her my room number and she texted back "See you at 7xx" So, I organised a couple of bottles of wine and some ice from reception, there were some load shedding candles and government issue condoms in the desk drawer. I did not have any kinky ropes and chains, but I did have some belts and ties so that would have to do. I had a shower and put on the hotel robe, I lit a few candles and dimmed the lights. I managed to find a music channel on my TV to play softly in the background, poured a big glass of wine and sat down to wait. It was quite nerve wracking waiting, I was not sure what she looked like, I had seen a few blurry profile pics but pictures can be misleading and then sometimes you meet someone and there isn’t that spark even though we had chatted nicely via text. Also I wasn’t even sure if she would really pitch, a lot of our chat had been jokey and I was wondering if when it came down to the actual deed she may have a change of heart and not have the nerve to follow through. As much as the idea of kinky sex and spanking quite sound so sexy when you read about it I was also a bit nervous to be trying this out in reality with some one I had never really met and hardly knew! Just after 7pm there was a quick knock at my door, I tried to look through the peephole but could just see some blonde hair as she was quite short and was looking down. I took a deep breath and opened the door… it was lucky I had that breath because I was very pleasantly surprised! Chantal was about 10 years younger than me and quite petit with an athletic build. A stunning body with awesome curves where a girl needs curves, her hair was cropped quite short in a pageboy bob which suited her pixie face. She was wearing tight jeans and boots with a sheer black blouse which showed cleavage and gave away a hint of lacy black bra. Altogether a very sexy package! There was a few moments awkward silence as we looked at each other, it was a bit weird, I wasn’t quite sure if we should hug / kiss / shake hands / rip clothes off (it was still a bit new for me then), then suddenly things just seemed to click into place with a quick shared nervous giggle it all started. I remembered that what she wanted in her fantasy was "too be treated like a call girl" so I kind of slipped into the pimp / rough customer role. I told her to come in and pointed to the foot of the large bed where I wanted her to stand, there was a leather bench along the end of the bed which I sat down on and looked her up and down, she was also slipping into her role and posed a bit for me. She had a slightly mischievous smile which I loved. I handed her a glass of wine, we said cheers and took a few big gulps, then I took her glass and put both the glasses down. I tilted the desk lampshade to shine out a bit and make a bit of a stage area. I told her strip for me which she dutifully started to do making a sexy show of it. I told her to stop when she had reached her bra and panties, matching black lace with French cut panties which I find very sexy, all I know is she looked very hot and I felt very lucky to have this stunning younger woman in my room, So there we were in my hotel room, the desk lamp illuminated her body nicely with a soft glow, for a brief moment I just admired her body and savoured the situation, she stood quietly looking down as if waiting to be instructed, biting her lower lip slightly maybe a bit apprehensive, I suddenly experienced a rush of excitement as I watched her, I could see her breasts rise and fall with each breath, I could see her nipples where long and taught under the revealing lace, as I mentioned before I had been turned on by the idea of light domination after reading 50 Shades and now here was a chance to experiment and it was a big thrill. Under my robe I could feel myself swelling and stiffening, I was not wearing any underwear and so without restriction my balls and cock felt heavy and full. My throat was a little dry despite the wine, “Turn around.”, I said a little hoarsely. She nodded slightly, sensing the new tension in my voice, and started turning… “Slower!”, I said more sternly, enjoying the feeling of control, but knowing we were playing a game, teasing each other and drawing out the moment. She stopped, then started turning again but slower this time so I could enjoy looking at her, she had a nice pert round bum and nice legs that were athletic and shapely, not too skinny. “Stop!”, I ordered her. She was now facing away from me, “Bend forward.”, I said softly, my throat felt dry and constricted! It was so sexy how she presented herself to me at my command, I reached out and softly even a bit hesitantly placed my hand on her butt, it was firm yet soft, the lace a bit scratchy on my palm. Strangely it was the first time we had touched! She gasped slightly as she felt my hand then stood still allowing me to have my way. Feeling bolder I cupped and squeezed her butt enjoying her firm full ass, it was pert and lovely, looking perfect for spanking. My fingers traced over the lacey fabric enjoying her curves and dipped into the divide caressing and stroking my way down between her slightly spread thighs, my fingers could feel the moist heat radiating from her core. By now I was rock hard under my robe and there was a large bulge in my lap. On the one hand I was desperate to bend her over the desk chair, shove her wet panties aside and thrust into her hard and fast, but I restrained myself enjoying feeling the passion and tension rise. “Face me!”, I said, bringing her back to look at me, her eyes were bright and staring intently at the bulge under my robe, she was biting her lip again but now looked hungry rather than anxious. “Kneel!”, I ordered. She knelt down on the thick carpet in front of me, still keeping her eyes downcast and demure, adding to my feelings of control, “Remove your bra.”, I instructed, now her eyes raised and locked with mine, it was one of the most sensuous experiences I have had with someone, who was basically a stranger to me! I watched as she reached back and then her bra fell away revealing her pale full round breasts and dark nipples, again I was mesmerised by the way her breasts seemed to swell with each breath. Almost beyond my control my hand reached out and cupped her breast, softly cupping under her soft skin feeling the weight of her breast in my palm, then my fingers circled up twirling in to the centre of her breast and tight nipple, a slight pinch made her gasp! My eyes looked down from her face to take in her breasts then further down to the now huge bulge under my gown, in fact the gown was being pressed a little open, her eyes followed mine and again I saw that hungry look in her eyes. “Open my robe!”, I said. With a deep breath she leaned forward between my parted knees and undid the loosely tied belt, the robe virtually burst apart falling to my sides revealing my cock hard and throbbing with need, “Lick me!”, I said, my voice once again hoarse, “Slowly…”, I added, I was very horny and wanted her to go slow so I could savour the moment, It was now quiet in the dim hotel room, just the candles flickering and light from the lamp. Time seemed to stand still, and I was holding my breath as her head lowered towards me. I gasped when her tongue circled around my moist tip, I wanted her to suckle on my full heavy balls too so I shrugged off the robe and stood in front of her so she could get better access, I liked that she had short hair so I could watch as she took me deeper in to her mouth, but I also wished it was a bit longer so I could grab her hair more firmly, I managed to get enough of a grip and used her hair to guide her mouth to where I most wanted to be suckled, again she took me deep into her mouth and sucked softly up and down, it felt amazing and I was enjoying standing over and dominating her in a way that would not happen back in my vanilla relationship at home! In fact, it was feeling too good, I could feel my balls twitching and tightening, preparing to release. I pulled myself back from her lips and told her to be careful because I was feeling close but didn't want to cum yet, half-jokingly I said if she wasn’t careful I would have to punish her, immediately I saw a mischievous smile flicker across her mouth and that hungry look was in her eye again. Looking me daringly in the eye she slowly swallowed my whole swollen cock, well as much as she could fit and started sucking me with relish making little moaning noises which made me quiver, she was clearly defying me and daring me to punish her. To be honest although I read some books and seen a few movies with light bondage and spanking (which I had found very erotic and sensual) I had never had the nerve to try it with anyone, it would not have gone down well at home and it always felt a bit weird to either ask someone or just suddenly whack them out of the blue. But suddenly in this situation I realised I had the perfect opening to take this role play to a new level. I grabbed her hair again and pulled my body back from her mouth, so my cock sprung out with a sudden plop. “You have been bad and need to be disciplined!”, I said. Her eyes dropped and she nodded her head. “Yes!”, she whispered quietly. I lifted her to her feet and turned her to face the leather clad bench at the base of the bed. She was totally compliant and moved into any position my hands guided her to. I pushed firmly on her shoulders, so she leaned forward, again pushing that firm round lace clad butt at me. I placed her hands on the bench and pulled her legs back a bit more, so she was properly bent forward her sexy bum in the air and very exposed to my eyes. With my foot I pressed on the inside of one calf then the other so her legs were forced open and her moist crotch exposed, I could see how wet she was as the inside of her thighs were slick with her juices. My cock was also dripping I was so aroused, I do like when girls get really wet it is a big turn on for me. I left her standing there for several seconds enjoying the sight, just a bit of damp lace lay between me and what I could see was a nice plump pussy, she was swaying a bit and pushing out at me, wondering what was coming next, wanting my touch,. Again I cupped her butt in my palm but firmer and rougher this time, then I used my fingertips only to tease circles around each side and then down into the valley between, I reached lower and stroked her thighs from back of knees up to just below her panty line, getting closer and closer to her core till I could feel the heat on my fingers, once or twice my fingers lightly brushed against wet lace which made her gasp and push out her bum for more, but I kept just out of reach not giving her the firmer touch she craved, this was the first part of her punishment, again I pulled away a bit and looked at her, standing there in just her panties quivering a bit waiting for my next move, she groaned slightly in frustration. Without warning I cupped my hand and smacked her bum, right in the middle of her right bum cheek. She jerked forward slightly and made a little “Oohh!” cry but otherwise remained still, I had surprised myself as I had not meant to smack her quite that hard as I was not sure what the "correct" amount of force to use was back then, but seeing as she seemed OK with that I felt a little bolder. “Present yourself.”, I said sternly and she bent back into position again pressing her bum out at me ready for whatever I had in mind next, I softly stroked the area I had just smacked which brought a low moan from her mouth, the area felt a bit warm to my touch and I could see her bum was getting a bit red where my hand had landed although the center area was still concealed by panties. Then just as suddenly as before I lifted my hand and smacked her on the other side, again she jerked a little and cried out, perhaps I had been a little harder this time but I was getting extremely turned on by what was happening and having her at my mercy to spank or have my way with as I chose, Again I told her to present herself and was gratified to see how quickly she was ready to get back into position, this went on for a while alternating between spanking and stroking, bringing out gasps and cries or deep throaty moans form her, her juices were now running down her leg, by now I was soo hard and horny I could have fucked a hole in concrete, I wanted to take her so badly bent over that bench, wet and ready for my cock, just thin soaking wet panties separating us!! I was really surprised at what a turn on it had been to spank her, it was something I had been curious about, but I never realised what a rush it would give me. Maybe because it seemed so naughty and taboo to be spanking a grown woman, also something about having her so exposed and in my power was very erotic and really brought out the animal instincts in both of us, by the end her moans and groans were animalistic, coming from deep in her gut. My hands were actually trembling from excitement as I tried to roll the condom on my rock hard cock, I have only been that hard on a few occasions and it almost hurt for my head to be so stretched, luckily it was a strong thick condom as I wanted to fuck her hard and I was worried I would cum too fast to enjoy it! She was still bent over the bench her bum glowing bright pink where my hands had landed, I pulled her panties aside and was pleased to see how her juices had trickled out making her thighs wet. She reached between her legs and spread herself wide open for me to see better and ready herself for my cock. I rubbed the throbbing tip of my cock a few times up and down her swollen slit and around her bulging quivering clit making us both wet and ready for what was to come. I was glad the condom was the thick government type; I could feel enough to enjoy it but was also kept from feeling too much and shooting my load before I could even enter her. By now it was enough I had been driven to my limit and could hold back no more I was desperate to cum and without warning I fucked hard into her. She almost lost her balance but pushed back gamely on my hard length till I was buried to the hilt in her dripping hot pussy. We both cried out together uncontrollably at the sensation of our bodies joining so furiously. I paused for a few seconds adjusting to the feeling, she was quite tight and a little tense which felt good, but I could not hold back I just wanted to cum and cum hard. I was not too worried about her orgasm I promised myself I would make it up to her later if she did not cum this time. I pulled back so just the tip remained twitching at the entrance to her hole then thrust hard again, and again. I was thrusting into her as hard and fast as I could, and she was pushing back equally hard moaning so loud I was worried security might interrupt us before I could cum. Again, the condom was helping me delay the inevitable moment, but I could feel my balls clenching and tightening in preparation of releasing a big load. By now we were both sweaty and making grunting moaning noises as the tide of feelings rose up from our pounding connection, I could feel her fingers touch my cock as she played with her clit then suddenly she reached further back and grabbed my balls, squeezing gently but firmly, milking the cum out of me. It was the final touch that sent me over the edge with a deep groan my whole body quivered and my ass muscles clenched hard as my balls started contracting pumping cum up my cock, by the way her thighs were quivering and convulsing I sensed she must be cumming too. We slumped forward in a sweaty tangle on the bed panting and moaning trying to recover from a good fuck, after a minute or two she pulled away from me and pushed me to roll onto my back. She crawled down between my knees and removed the flooded condom from my softening cock. Slowly like a kitten with cream her small tongue licked out and she slowly cleaned my cock from drained balls to sensitive tip. I could feel her tender touch having an effect and I knew it would not be long before I had recovered enough for a round two. The first one had been her fantasy, the things she wanted to happen. The second time it would be my fantasy and I wondered if she was going to enjoy what I had in store for her next. AN IMPORTANT NOTE: This was my first experience with BDSM and at the time I had no experience and knew very little about the subject. I just want to say that it can be a thrilling and fulfilling experience for people who's taste extend into the various BDSM cultures BUT you need to be careful and not just rush blindly in. You need to understand all aspects of what it is about and should ideally be guided by someone who is experienced in this aspect of the lifestyle. Psychological damage and physical harm can result from inexperienced plays.. In later years I have become properly acquainted with BDSM and would have done things differently. Fifty Shades was a fun read and good for awakening interest BUT you need to get more serious in your research!!!