It was a Friday evening early in November when I got my first taste of let’s start by calling it “edging”.

With my limited experience that is what I would have called it at first.

I have been in the Lifestyle a few years and you get to a point where you think you have heard and seen it all. You have made a few friends that you enjoy spending time with, but things fall into a pattern.

Clubs come and go but you always stay hopeful that there are still some new experiences out there.

Then you meet up with an old friend and you start chatting and experimenting and you realize – it was not the lifestyle that was the problem, it is about connecting with the right kind of people. People that understand pleasure. That pleasure can be so much more than just the next orgasm!!!

The evening started out as two friends enjoying each other’s company, good food and titillating conversations. During our conversations, Rick planted little seeds, dropping them during our conversation to gauge what I am ready for and what not.

The conversation was very arousing, but in such a subtle way, only when I reached for my coffee and my arm brushed my nipple and it puckered up, did I register, what was happening subconsciously. SMILE, my nipples usually have a mind of their own and they are not always a good indicator as for how much I am turned on. But they clearly wanted me to be aware that they were ready for whatever follows next.

Rick leaned forward, close to my ear and asked me if I would like to take things upstairs, his warm breath fluttering over my skin, raising goosebumps in anticipation. All I could do, was just nod, he stood up and held his hand to take me upstairs. Ever the gentleman, he let me walk up the stairs in front of him. Walking up those stairs was almost a challenge as I could feel how turned-on I was.

In his bedroom, he walked casually over to the TV and chose some background music for the seductive experience I was about to receive.

He sat on the bed and watched me undress, not a glimmer of his intent showing, or even what he was feeling. Only when he got up and undressed as well did I notice his engorged cock.

Rick walked towards me, letting me enjoy the sight of him in all his nakedness. I think my face was quite revealing, as he gave a satisfied chuckle as he pulled me into his arms. I lifted my face expecting a kiss; but he took my chin in is hand and moved it so he could kiss me in my neck. Little nibbles from my ear to where my pulse was going crazy. I tried to lift my hands as I wanted to touch his body but he stepped back and told that that tonight was all about “MY pleasure”.

His comment caught me off-guard, no one had put my pleasure above theirs before. And the idea was enough to take my breath away. I could not wrap my mind around what to expect from the night ahead.

There was no rush as he kissed his way from my ear to collarbone and back, his hands slightly stroking my body. He moved his mouth and took one hard nipple and started softly sucking and nibbling on it. I lifted my hand to his head, the urge to hold him closer was overwhelming. The shivers going through my body gave away my arousal as it was about to peak, just then, Rick pulled his mouth away and watched me.

Imagine walking out on a cliff to make a base jump, you mentally prepare yourself and as your body tense, you are stopped, no reason just stopped. Your mind tries to grasp what happens, your body goes crazy for the release it was anticipating, yet it was stopped. It feels like you are teetering on the edge, the feeling is indescribable. Little did I know what the rest of the night had in store…

I could not help but laugh, it was so exhilarating, his timing was so accurate.

Pulling me into his arms he kissed me so deep that I almost forgave him, wink…

Rick stood at the bottom of the bed and told me to get comfortable as the night was just starting. I settled on the bed my anticipation mounting, the earlier experience almost forgotten. I closed my eyes and opened my body to him, knowing that whatever will happen, will be erotic to say the least.

He kissed my inner thigh and sliding his tongue out licking my skin, I felt goosebumps growing all over my body. His hot breath passed over my wet and wanting pussy as he gave my other inner thigh the same attention. I wanted to beg him to take my aching clit into his mouth, but my body betrayed me.

Looking up he whispered, “just enjoy, we have the whole night ahead of us”. I swallowed and tried to relax. His warm breath was back on my clit and pussy and I could feel my juices building up. “Heaven”, his mouth finally reached my inner lips and I almost leaped off the bed, but still my aching clit was not to be soothed as yet, his tongue borrowing into the folds of my pussy made me lift my hips a fraction, almost silently begging for more. I swear I could feel him smile. He licked all around my clit and then, his warm mouth closed over my clit, “OH HEAVENLY”, his tongue licking softly up and down interchanged with a soft sucking motion. I could feel my orgasm starting to build again and was so caught up in the wonderful sensations. His mouth was warm and every now and again he would hum and the vibration would add another layer to the already overwhelming sensations of his mouth making love to my clit. I could feel the shivers starting to take over and the next moment, Rick lifted his mouth and with a sly look asked me if all was ok. I could feel the convulsions of the orgasm subside again, I was so damn close, a few more seconds and I would have been flying. I had to swallow and try and compose myself before opening my eyes to respond, the absolute pleasure and mischief in his eyes was my undoing and I just had to laugh again.

The next few orgasms were also stopped with perfect timing and my mental frustration was beyond description. Never would I have dreamt, that not having an orgasm could be so erotic. I could feel my mind opening and the hormones raging through my body, made me feel so very alive. His ability to judge the timing of my arousal, just to stop in time, before I finally could experience the orgasm I longed so much for, took my breath away. The joy you feel and the fun of it is so satisfying, it is almost impossible to capture it here.

His words rung in my mind…..”YOU will get more than JUST an ORGASM out of this!”

My experiences with men have never properly prepared me for a lover like Rick.