Sexuality is as important as the the air you breath and it defines who you are. Sadly, many people are confused about their sexuality, and it results in a very bad or unsatisfying sex. Sexuality is also the the bedrock of any relationship and determines the length and health of your love life. It is therefore important that you are aware of and happy with your sexuality. Sexuality may chsnge or evolve over time, and while you were raised as, and are primarily a heterosexual being, you may find yourself curious about, or yearning for same sex encounters too.
By far the best way to really know your sexuality is through experimentation and exploration, and there are many ways to experiment with and explore your sexuality. Whatever your age and marital status, it is never too late to experiment with and explore your sexuality. Being in a relationship is not an excuse or a barrier to experimenting with and exploring your sexuality. Believe it or not, experimenting and exploring can actually spice up your relationship and awaken a whole new world of pleasure and excitement.
It is absolutely necessary that you are open with your sexuality, that you know for certain what you like and what suits you. You should never have to go through life without exploring any curiosities you have in terms of your sexuality. Afterall how do you really know how you feel about something unless you try it at least once.
In the swingers community as a whole, bisexuality is fast becoming more popular. Bisexual persons are sexually attracted to both male, female or multiple gender identity or sex. There are several advantages to being bisexual, the biggest being the ability to be sexually attracted to both genders. This ability increases your options as opposed to other people who can only have sexual acts with one gender and means you can make out with a girl, a guy, a threesome, transgender, and so on with almost no limit.
For people in a committed relationship, one of the best and most exciting ways to experiment with your sexuality is swinging. For such people, it is not common to be a swinger without your partner also being one. Swinging is a judgement free lifestyle, and a sophisticated sexual practice that involves swapping your partner to explore each other sexually or having sexual relations with different people for exploration.
Discuss exploring your sexuality with your swinging partner if you have never discussed it with him/her before. Start slowly and ask questions to first know his or her perspective, then use the information you get to know how best to tell your partner about your desire to explore.
It is extremely important to recognize and agree boundaries for exploration and experimentation with your partner. You have to speak to each other about it and establish them. This will prevent a lot of jealousy or conflict. It is not wise of you both to just go about exploring and experimenting with your individual sexuality without knowing what to expect. You have to know what you want out of such experience so that when you get there, you will know what to take from it and not find yourself just about accepting eveything.
Swinging is not just about sleeping with different people, but a chance at a different lifestyle and a different way of understanding and experiencing sex and sexuality. Through it you are given a chance to discover yourself and still hold on to the partner you love and care about. In the process of swinging, a lot of swingers have discovered that they had claimed the wrong sexual identity or labored under misconceptions for years, allowing them to open the door and opportunity for new experiences, socialization, recreation, fun, and reconnection back to their own true selves.
As a sophisticated kind of therapy for people to learn how to become a better sexual partner and lover, as well as find out what gets you excited or how to please your partner, swinging is a superior lifestyle choice. By opening up their minds to new experiences, swingers are able to explore all the sexiness of any gender in order to discover their own sexuality, making it the safest, fastest, and most reliable method of experimenting with and exploring sexuality.
To find other swingers to explore your sexuality with, join an online swingers website. This is the easiest way to connect with other swingers keen on exploring their own sexuality because it does not carry along the pressure that is usually there when meeting with complete strangers face-to- face. By using a website, you can create a profile to conceal your true identity, which enables you to be bolder when interacting. The best part is that it connects you to someone with the same needs as you.
When you are ready to move on to real exploration of your sexuality, you can attend a swingers club/party. The advantage of swinging clubs/parties is that they bring swingers together and establish a community. These communities make it easier for you to socialize with other swingers. Many of these communities hold parties that are exclusive to swingers. You can even find parties hosted in your area, or you can even organize one yourself. Since many of these clubs/parties are generally private, or by invitation only and have rules that must be respected, they ensure a safe and secure environment for you to explore your sexuality. Also, you are not obliged to interact with anyone when you get into any of these clubs/parties so there is no need to feel any pressure to do so. If it is your first time, you go there just to observe.
Exploring your sexuality within the swingers lifestyle presents many options and formats for you to experiment with your sexuality, for example, if you are a man curious about having a jack-off buddy, or fancy sucking a cock; or perhaps you are woman that really wants to go down on another woman; swinging allows you to do this is in a judgement free and very sexy environment.
