A creampie is traditionally defined as ejaculation into a vagina during heterosexual penetrative sex. The term having originated from a literal pie filled with whipped cream, which is also filled with a  white semi-liquid substance that drips or oozes out when cut into. 

For some people however, ejaculating into an anus during penetrative anal sex could also count as a creampie, and ejaculating into someone’s mouth or down someone’s throat during a blowjob is sometimes called a “throatpie.” 

Every time someone calls a creampie a kink, I die a little inside. When you think about it, creampies are not really kink  but the most basic part of sex there is. Everyone who has ever lived was born because someone has creampied someone else.

It is only now that condoms, birth control pills, hysterectomies, and vasectomies are readily accessible that people call it “kinky” to ejaculate inside someone else, when in reality creampies are as vanilla as you can get. Creampies however never ceases to amaze with oozing, tantalizing messiness.

Every single man I have ever trusted enough to let cum inside me, wanted to see their handiwork dripping out of me afterward. Now while it can be an awkward moment, sitting there and having someone investigate your freshly-fucked pussy, if you did let him spill his seed inside of you, you sure as shit should be intimate enough with him to let him enjoy the fruits of our labor. He just better be nice enough to take a photo so I can see it too.

Despite the risks that come along with bareback sex and swapping ooze, there is something incredibly intimate and even romantic about two people’s combined fluids. In addition it always reminds me of how sex is supposed to be. Just two people, no barriers, nothing artificial, just two human bodies doing what they do best.

Having said all that, not all creampies are created equal. Some are just plain lackluster, while others are hot, steamy, and downright sloppy. There are different ways to do and feel different things. Determine whether you want to take photos of it for a keepsake afterward, or are you just going for maximum drip or the most romantic creampie you can give her.

If you are a fan of sloppy creampies like my hubby, then read on....

For a long time, the classic finishing move in porn movies was what is known as the ‘money shot’ — the guy climaxing on his scene partner‘s face. However in recent years, the porn industry has shifted significantly towards a preference for internal ejaculation or a creampie. While the creampie may not provide the immediate visual impact of seeing someone ejaculate their semen on someone else’s face, its popularity, evidently, speaks to the erotic thrill of a sex act that feels incredibly more intimate, thanks in no small part to the fact that, when it is done with someone who has a uterus, it could theoretically lead to a pregnancy.

While early adult film producers felt that their output needed to have a very visible climax to convince the audience that they were getting the real thing rather than being subjected to cheap tricks, modern porn production relies on viewership data, and going on the number of clicks on the biggest porn sites, the people have spoken — they love watching someone get creampied.

Now while porn actors are likely to have easy access to birth control and legal abortions, not every creampie is real. Porn scenes that feature a creampie typically have a shot of the semen dripping out of the vagina in order to show the viewer that a real ejaculation occurred, even when the shot is faked. Since porn is a visual medium, and creampies necessarily mean the moment of ejaculation will occur out of sight of the cameras, there is pressure to ensure a visual payoff of some sort. Sometimes, that means faking the post-creampie shot by putting moisturizer into the vagina.  Sometimes, they even add extra fake cum ( moisturizer) to make the load look bigger.

So what is the big appeal of creampies?

While safe sex is still great for most guys, having a condom on does reduce physical stimulation, and if they have to pullout of their partner, the guy has to actively prevent himself from cumming when it feels best to do so.

Outside of the heightened physical sensation of unprotected sex mixed with the freedom to keep on thrusting during the moment of climax, there are also a number of psychological reasons guys might be into creampies.

Not every guy will like creampies, but for those who do, the reasons they like it can vary:

For some, it is about having sex in a way that feels more ‘natural’ — the instinctual, primal feeling of satisfaction of having natural sex without protection and seemingly without worrying about pregnancy, whether or not their partner is using some sort of birth control.

For other guys, the absence of condoms is a big turn-on because there is freedom from worrying about the potential impact of ejaculating in their partner. 

Due to the threat of STI's, creampies have become a more rare experience. For some guys this rarity carries with it a certain shocking or exciting aspect - the taboo of having risky sex.

Besides the aforesaid, there are many different ways creampies can feel sexy or exciting. Ultimately though, it will dramatically depend on the guy involved, and the couple.

It is important to note that guys are not the only ones who find creampies to be an erotic concept. Some women also find creampies immensely hot, and this may be a turn on for their partners. Like me, these women find it arousing to have their partner ejaculate inside them, or simply like to fantasize about it without it actually occurring. 

Whatever the reason for liking creampies, creampieing someone without their consent is NEVER EVER OK, you should avoid doing so even if you do have their consent, especially if you’re not sure whether the other person is on birth control or STI free.

Finally, if you are in a committed relationship and really want to explore creampie sex, ensure that you have effective birth control measures in place.  Basic hormonal birth control like the pill is not the safest way to avoid pregnancy. People who want to avoid pregnancy should consider using a high-efficacy form of birth control, like an IUD.

If you are a  person who finds creampies erotic, especially if you are the penetrating partner, you need to remember that it is not YOUR decision to make. Just as you would want to have the final say on anything that might affect your body, in a similar way it is important to extend that same right and respect to your partner too.  

A woman's hesitation for being creampied could stem from many different reasons, all of which are valid. Some women do not want to be creampied because they simply do not enjoy the feeling of ejaculate in or on their body. Others may have concerns about pregnancy or STI transmission. Always remember that whatever a woman's reason for not wanting a creampie, she does not have to give a reason why, and her decision must always be respected.

That having being said, It is possible to have a discussion with your partner in a respectful way, and it is possible your partner will be into the idea as well. 

Be open and honest with your partner if you want to ejaculate inside of them. It is often easier to have this conversation once you’ve established trust and rapport with them. It is very important to bring it up during a conversation about your sex life, rather than during the act of sex itself.  If you want to ejaculate inside your partner, you need to talk about it way ahead of having sex.  You simply cannot negotiate creampies during sex or right before you are about to cum. The risky nature of this activity makes it absolutely necessary to make sure you and your partner are on the same page. As high-risk fantasy and behaviour, it needs to be treated with a higher level of care.

If your partner says yes (or is open to the idea), be open and honest about why you find creampies so exciting to help your partner understand what the draw is for you.  After you have gotten some explicit, enthusiastic consent before your sexual encounter, you can start talking about what makes it hot for both of you. Figure out what gets you both hot for internal ejaculation. Perhaps she loves the taboo of pregnancy risk or you both want to roleplay with some consensual ‘forced’ impregnation, or perhaps you both love how natural and primal the urge feels and want to culminate it. Think of this as pre-gaming dirty talk, and negotiate the details of your creampie as part of your foreplay.

If your partner is however, not up for you ejaculating inside them, do not push it. Listen to their concerns and be willing to answer their questions. Ultimately it is their decision, so if they say no, you need to respect that.

With the risks associated with being creampied, there is a chance that creampies are totally off the table in your relationship. If so, you need to accept that and respect your partner's decision —even if it is not an STI or pregnancy concern.

This does not mean there is nothing you can do to accommodate your desire. If you are really serious about wanting to ejaculate inside your partner, it is possible that your partner will eventually warm up to the idea over time. People’s attitudes and comfort level regarding various sex acts can definitely evolve over the course of their life, so there is always hope.
If you are in a long-term relationship, your partner may change her mind. The worst thing you could do is pressure your partner since that violates consent. But if he/she is willing to discuss it over a period of time,  he/she may well feel differently about it.

In the event that your partner is definitely not interested, you could explore other ways to satisfy your need for creampies physically or psychologically.  You could,for example, use a sex toy as a stand-in so you get the visual pleasure of seeing your ejaculate seep out of the masturbator. Another thing you could try is making use of a female condom while penetrating your partner, working creampie conversations into your dirty talk or sexting without actually engaging in the act. In this way you can still observe your ejaculate oozing out of her. I know that neither option is not the same as the real thing, but it can be a good alternative.

Finally, it is very important to note that without full and enthusiastic consent from your partner, ejaculating inside her constitutes a violating act very much like rape, because the consequences arising from ejaculating in someone can be quite severe.

HOPE YOU FULLY ENJOY YOUR CREAMPIE EXPERIENCE