She had been viewing my profile for a week or two... She kept looking at my pics and sometimes leaving a comment or two...And enjoyed my writings as well... Liking them and sending comments she wishes it was her and me...Reading through her profile, she seemed to be a rather interesting lady... Thinking would be nice to meet up with her...I sent her a message asking if she would like to meet over a cup of coffee to see if we had any connection and where it would lead... Little to my surprise a couple of days had gone by and there was no reply from her... Thinking she must be shy or was she afraid of meeting with strangers as some people have a fear, so I left her alone... Coming home from spending the weekend in Langebaan and going into my emails, I saw I had a message from the site...On opening the message, I saw it was a message from this lady... ( I will not mention her name to prevent embarrassment to her...) The message read...Sorry for my delay in responding to your mail as I am only a basic member and can only reply to a couple of messages a day... But I would like to take you up on your offer to meet for coffee at Tygervalley on Monday morning if that is fine with you...Not having anything on my agender, I replied that would be nice to meet up with you...Just give me a time and a place and I will be there... She replied twelve would be nice at....... ( the name was not mentioned for safety reasons by me...) Just before twelve, I arrived, taking a seat away from the door, but easy for her to see me...Knowing how she looked, with her red auburn color hair... I kept a look at the door...Just on twelve, she entered the coffee shop looking just as beautiful as her pictures on her profile, in the direction of the table she walked...Up I got pulled out, her chair, for her to take a seat...There she sat opposite me...Looking rather shy, and battling to say a word luckily the table assistant came to her rescue and asked if we were ready to place an order... Yes, she replied, " A large Cappuccino for me... " The assistant looked at me and said, " The same for you sir..." Yes, I replied, off he walked in the direction of the coffee bar...Looking at her I broke the ice by saying see you have been on the site for just over a month and asked if she was enjoying her time on the site...Sheepishly looking back at me, she replied not really...(Wondering, if she is not enjoying herself why would she still be on the site...)Trying to make her feel more comfortable I was doing all the chatting, which was not easy when one only got one-word answers... The table assistant brought over the order place one cappuccino in front of her and the other in front of me...Looking at her I asked, any sugar for you...No, no, she replied...I am fat enough and don't need any more calories...You fat, definitely not I replied...She chuckled glad you think so...Sipping on her coffee and the ice seemingly broken, she asked me if I had made any friends on the site...Yes, a few I had replied...Smiling she asked, Friend, friends, or friends with benefits...Staring at her rather puzzled, she could see I was rather confused by the question she had asked me...She was quick to chip in, I am here only to make friends with benefits for me...Like what I asked...She was quick to avoid answering my question... By saying, I see you are single...Then ask me, are you really single or are you like most of the men on this site playing without their wives knowing...No that is not me...I was married for more than twenty years before my wife passed away... Sorry to hear that she replied...Looking at her I said I see you are married, Yes I am she replied and my husband knows what I am doing and does not mind as there are benefits in it for him...Like what I asked...Avoiding an answer to my question she was quick to answer with another question...So what do you do for sex she asked...Looking at her totally dumbfounded as I had never been asked so bluntly by a woman...Slowly I started to answer, I have got a good circle of women friends...Interrupting again she said they must keep you occupied...So what do you prefer one on one or multiply partners at a time...Wondering why was she so inquisitive and still staring into her eyes I replied it depends on the situation... Smirkishly looking at me she said, it seems we will never hit it off because I offer a service at a fee...Annoyed l think can this be true, is this a prostitute that is trying to proposition me...I looked at her and said, what do you mean a fee...Yes a fee, I am paid for my time...My rates are three thousand rands for the night and a few hundred rands during the day...Staring at her with my mouth wide open, I asked does your husband know what you doing...Yes, he does he is the one who made me do what I am doing...And he provides my safety... So beware readers see what has infiltrated our site of fun...Looks like blackmail to me...