This is my first blog. And someone here asked me why i don’t write about my experience in this crazy world living this lifestyle. But first i need to tell the story how i got into this life style and i do think lots of you can relate as other will stone me and judge. But it is ok. I have fought my own demons for years. So here is the story of how i have found out why i am here today. Living the life i do.

I was still in high school the first time i had sex with the love of my life “that is what i thought” she was one of the most beautiful girls in school and everyone wanted their hands on her. I thought I was one of the luckiest guys in school to have a beautiful Princess like her.

We had sex almost every day if we could we made plans anywhere any place. From the back of the bus , under the stairs. We even bunk school and periods to get time together . My first experience with sex was good really good and we tried end experimenting a lot with each other.

Then one weekend came and her friend came along for the weekend and i called my friend. We went out for the day and that evening the two of us sleeping on the floor at the end of the bed and my friend with her friend slept on the bed. That night was my first experience to have sex while someone else in the room. And the other two also started to sexually seduce each other in bed. I could not hold it anymore and slipped my dick inside my girlfriend . They could hear her moan en hear her enjoying as we made love. Then i heard them also having sex right there next to us. It was not long and all four if us moan from this good sex and that sounds and pressure was just out of this world. After that I started to get bored with this girl i thought was the love of my life and i was imagining having sex with her friend. It took some hard work to eventually get to this girl to have sex with. It was good but not as good as what i was used to. The personality thé gestured, the moaning was not the same I really was so used to this girlfriend of mine. As it always does my girlfriend found out i was cheating on her with her best friend. Yes i know i am a ass to put it lightly. Then my girlfriend left me and she got involved with some one else. And the jealousy hit me. I could not stop thinking about this guy having sex with my girlfriend. My first heart break experience was terrible as they all do. I have found eventually someone else where there was no sex involved. As a teenager i was trying to make it happen and she did not want to give in. I like this new girlfriend she was nice . She was popular in school and part of the netball first team. She also did well in her studies. But to get her to bed was a no go. So one night at a dance “Sokkie Jol” at school i ran in to my old girlfriend. We could not keep our hands of each other. When to the schools toilets to have sex with each other while my new girlfriend and her new boyfriend was in the hall waiting for us in side the Sokkie jol. We had aquicky and boy can you imagine how happy i was to hear her moan and cry and holding me again.

She said to me afterward she is not leaving her new boyfriend as i tried to get her back. After that every now and the we still got together to catch up on what we missed from each other. One day she told me she just had sex with him and i realized i did not mind. I want to put my dick still inside her. And when i did she was wet she was ready for me. I imagine it is her boyfriends cum inside her and that really turned me on. It made me so horney with the minset that his cum might be inside her and all over my dick. I asked her to lick my dick while cumming in her mouth and I imagine she sucking my dick with his cum and mine and she is on her knees here in front if me. That was a powerful feeling i have to admit. She was amazing as she always was.

Eventually we did not see each other again. But every time we was together it was magical.

I did not have a girlfriend that i could say i did not cheat on. Even all my girlfriends has cheated on me too. I always was looking for more looking for good sex looking for good an wonderful woman available to have magical moments with.

I was lying in bed with my daughters mom years later and her sister came to visit with her partner. As we lying in bed i heard the sister moaning down stairs they where fucking. That sounded so good i just wanted to go down and be part of it. I wanted my daughters mother sister to sit on my dick and enjoy that peace of meat. I was thinking of both us guys in her. I could not sleep that night as i kept on think of the sister. She made me think of my school love i had years back. Sounded like she really enjoy sex.

Yes i am sure you can guess it i got married to the sister after a few years. They was three sisters and really difficult to say which one was more amazing and i had my bit with all three if them at different times . So i got married to the youngest one. And we had all nighters. I remember my wife used to shout to the kids “who wants cookies” and if we get an answer we know they are still awake. To think about it make me smile. Yes we both cheated on each other and the marriage did not work. Then i met my sons mom. She was really young full of energy the most beautiful personality. I loved that woman or i thought i did. This time i thought i an going to be a good boy. Be a father and be the beat man i can be for this woman. And here is where everything started for me. Keep in mind internet was only going for a few years and mixit on the phones

One day after work we sit on the couch and she asked me if i would like to have another couple in our relationship. We did not know anything about rule and regulations. She has find this couple staying not to far from us. And we started to see them once or twice a month on weekends. we started finding some other couples that we had some awesome time with. And i think the jealousy eventually got hold on both of us although i never did anything with out her. First time i never cheated on a girl. That made me think after she left me for someone else. I again was heart broken as bad as it can be. I lost second mother of my children.

I knew i could not have a woman like her again . I was broken and started to hate woman. I started to generalize woman under one umbrella. And did not see how i was the problem. It took me years to recover from this relationship. But now i wanted something new. I started to get to know my self through this previous relationship. I started to look for a woman that would like to share me. Be open with me and love to fuck even other men. Till today am looking for this princess from heaven.

So this is how i got in to swinging and some of my beautiful experiences will follow. Stay tuned