Communication is the most important factor when it comes to erotic humiliation and I am writing this story from first hand experience. My hubby used to call me loppie as my one lip is a bit longer than the other and he would do this in front of other people and the obviously never knew why . Once we started swinging and I wanted guys with big dicks to come over he started calling me other names like whore and cock sucking whore which was in private and between the 2 of us and was never done in a insulting way it was in a sexual context . His humiliation would be light hearted and he would ask me who i was and i would tell him i was his slut or whore and we still do it till today. But for some time now he says he finds it arousing and a turn on that I should start humiliating him and he has tried to convince me to do so. I find it very difficult to do this. I have on occasion told him his dick is to small and I need big cocks but this has been in a conversation when planning to swing . But now I find it difficult to do cock humiliation with him I have let him compare his dick once with one of my bulls and take a pic but should I now do it regular when guys come over and personally compare the dicks ? We are a cuckold couple but I also find it hard to lable it that even though I know that we are quiet a heavy cuck couple . I do enjoy big cocks and when hubby fucks me he wears a extension on his tiny dick and when he gets out the shower his dick does not hang at all . Are their any swinging ladys out there that practice cock humiliation with there tiny dick hubbys and can you give me some advice on how I can start doing this and get over the fact that I do not want to hurt him but arouse him and turn him on by doing this?