Hi I am a recently widowed, single bisexual woman. I am short and curvy and cuddly. I have a very healthy sexual appetite and a love of kink. 

I am looking for a single like minded lady, gentleman or broad minded couple.

And when I say gentleman I mean gentleman! (Pictures of your penis or lewed, sexually explicit conversations, comments or questions don't do it for me. I don't do cams!)

I enjoy a certain amount of controlled pain. Receiving not giving....it's interesting.

I am polyamorous.

I will chat with you a few times on the site, if I like what I hear we can whatsap. If that goes well for us we can meet. If we are all comfortable then, we can take it further. NO pressure.

Friendship is a must. I am not into hit and run or one night stands.

 I expect respect, intelligence, good conversation, a sense of humour and a liberal outlook on life. Get into my mind and it gives you an edge.

You are welcome to leave me a message not all messages will however be answered. 

And now i feel compelled to add this. ...computer generated, generic messages will NOT be answered...messages telling me what you want to do to me will NOT be answered. ..messages with d**k pics will NOT be answered..."hi"; "hello"; "wud"; "hru" etc will NOT be answered.  If you would like me to answer you at least take the time to write me a decent message. Thank you.