First up - I am a stocky, older hairy, balding, greying, bearded bearish masculine daddy. If that is not your type - no need to continue reading. If it is, well...

Relaxed, friendly, easygoing, ideally looking for friends, or friends with benefits for me and/or my partner to play with when the need arises - but also have a braai without feeling obligated to add nookie to the menu.

Greatly turned on by quick and easy, discreet NSA encounters when the time and opportunity arises. Huge voyeur - love watching a couple perform, or a guy teasing and showing off, even more if it is semi-public...

If you want to be sucked, rimmed, fingered, prostate massaged - I am your guy. I can keep going for hours. So, all those str8 guys who wonders how it feels - let me know if you want to experience pure bliss with no obligations...

ALWAYS discreet, friendly and patient - in other words, ideal if it is your first time. Respects boundaries. Certainly not looking for a relationship. And certainly not promiscuous or a habitual player.

Ask for my nr. That is if you can be discreet and realize I have a life (and hopefully you have one too). Nothing as unattractive as needy 2am messages...

Feeling lonely, confused, or inquisitive?

In need to explore safely and discreetly?

Want to know if, and how, a man feels different to a woman?

Want to ask those questions you cannot ask anybody else?

Then I may be the guy to contact.

I will always be honest in answering (and that certainly does not mean I have all, or any, answers - but I will listen at least).

I am that private buddy, loyal friend, good listener, discreet lover and patient teacher. I prefer younger (or similar to me) guys and couples, with a brain, who want to explore their sexuality, but nothing is cast in stone.

Oh - and I have this secret fetish of sucking off a (younger) guy with a nice member, nothing needed in return, totally anonymous and discreet. Just drop to my knees, do the deed, zip him up and leave...

Lastly, I intensely dislike pretentious people, and empty promises. Life is short - be you or be gone.