We're a secure couple who knows what we like in the lifestyle. Home language: Afrikaans. Don't like writing novels here... So, our main aim is meeting all kinds of people in this lifestyle. Some just for long time party friends and some as playmates. As long as all can be themselves and have fun just doing that! We do love to be impulsive on the day, not good at planning ahead. She showed interest in spicing up the marriage 20 years ago by wanting a bi single lady. Since then we have been enjoying more and more in the lifestyle as we are totally open with each other as to what we like and also know we don't want to enjoy things separately.

BUT PLEASE NOTE THE FOLLOWING:
COUPLES: The best parties is always the ones that took the least planning. If you just expect to get good company with people in the same lifestyle, the party could be one of the best

SINGLE GUYS - please understand that we will make first contact.

FRIEND REQUESTS - we like to believe that a friend is someone that you can at least identify when passing them by in public and you have had some sort of interaction with...

RACE: Unfortunately we don't cross ethnic lines