I might go just not sure what day

So a thought came to my mind as I was viewing a profile's media and liking every second pic (Who amazing pics they were but not the point) I thought to myself if the couple logs in they will see this desperate man liking all their pics.

So my question to all is: What do single guys do that really irritates you and makes you say I will not speak to this man? I know the obvious one is the messages saying "Wanna fuck?" but what else.

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We've had this in the past. At least when there are 2 of us, if the other person/people don't show up, you have someone with you to finish your coffee with before leaving.

We've had this with singles and couples.

It's incredibly rude to not show up. At least let us know you won't make it, instead of saying that you're running late and then no show!

Yeah at least you can talk to someone as a couple.

But it's more humiliating for me sitting there for half an hour looking at my phone periodically see I was blocked for no reason and then leave.

But I have to keep my hopes up That I will meet a few friends.

This has probably happen to more people and have been posted here a few times but I feel I should voice my anger.

So after not using the site for a few years and getting back into things I say hi to a few profiles, read some stories and forums having a fun time. 2 Profiles on separate occasions respond and we chat and they say let's talk on (This is now a no go for me) After a few chats we plan to meet for drinks and just chat nothing serious planned. Now I am waiting at the bar 10 min early, I chat them (On ) to tell them where to find me in the bar "I am almost there" is the response I get. All is good. 10 min, 20 min, 30 min later (My mistake for waiting so long) I get no reply on , I check this site to see if the messaged me here and boom blocked.

Why? Why waste my time? Why do such a thing? If you don't want to meet me SAY so. If you don't want to talk to me SAY so. I have enough regular S*** in my life I don't need this as well.

So I will ask a question to the community: How do you filter out things like this? I now only use and this site for communication. The profiles were active for over 6 months and had vouches. So not new scam profiles.

Otherwise thank you for listening to my rant and Have a good day yourselves. 😉

Thank you for this, I as a single male really appreciate it, But I do have some question in response;

• What would be an acceptable first message? Because "Hi" is too generic and a waste of a message, But I also don't want to write a full Paragraph.

• How do you politely ask for a response even a negative one to help improve yourself, I understand most accounts are free and don't want to waste a message saying no. But if I don't know why people reject me how can I improve?