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Shaybytheway
3 hours ago
Straight White/Caucasian Female, 65
0 km · Edenvale

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Good luck with that! 

So many profiles have their pictures 'locked' you can't even see anything, let alone something to perv! 

People are generally rude and ill-mannered, I'm sorry to say. 

That is a total generalisation, as in between one does find a gem! 

I must admit, I do prefer a cut cock! 

I love seeing the head, and pulling back a foreskin is a little daunting 😂

I'm an agist (I want someone close to my age) and that's the first thing I look at. 

From there, I like to read about the person and language and grammar catches my eye. 

If I'm still interested, I look at pictures and also if available, their friends. I don't understand why some people have a zillion friends on the list without actually meeting anyone, let alone have had a decent conversation with any of these people. 

Having a location on their profile is very important, I really don't want to spend hours getting to know someone only to find they're kilometres away and very little chance of passing my way 🤷‍♀️

No wonder I battle to find anyone 🤔


Very well said - as to incomplete profiles and no pics either, how does one even know it's a true profile. 

Hi, I see you've joined our over 50's group, which at least puts you amongst your peers.  I think things are a little difficult with Covid, but there are people meeting up. I've heard a good way to get involved is going to a club (I think Rome, but you need to apply for membership before being allowed to visit).  I'm seriously considering a meet and greet early next year, but that's a topic for another day. 

OK, between the two of you, I think it would be best if I was the proof reader/editor.

The word 'dairy' is where one goes to get milk. 

You're both referring to a 'diary', where one records stories, thoughts, feelings and experiences. 

I volunteer! 

I am extremely pedantic about English language and grammar, I often wish people would send me their freshly written prose before publishing! But I suppose, that would be asking too much.

I was told that a moderator was able to 'make corrections', I wish I could 😂

I used to read a lot of erotica until I was introduced to porn sites, and sadly, now my preference. 

But, I still enjoy reading a story, now and then, on SH

I was just complaining about not pitching for a coffee date, nearly as bad.  Someone suggested make use of the 'Vouch' option and say 'No show'!! 

One always hopes both parties have a good sense of humour and can enjoy a good laugh, which always eases tension as does a good orgasm! 

Good morning 

None of us on the group is 'over the hill', that's exactly why we have the group.

At least you know everyone is more mature - in age, not necessarily in how we conduct ourselves! 

It's not necessary to take such drastic steps because of some people's preferences. I am an Administrator on a group and I get to decide if I 'approve' or 'deny' an application. I have come across a couple of profiles blocked to me - I have no reason why - but then have the pleasure of denying them, mainly because I can't see if they're suitable. . This is definitely their loss and a little satisfying to me!