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Nsalover
Over 90 days ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 53
0 km · Free State

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Quote by Gerrie2012
Actually there IS a way to filter, when you search.
You ask it to bring up profiles that have "single guys" in their " looking for"options. But it seems that, almost as a rule people (single guys) use the "gallery" to find profiles to look at instead of the "browse" function, which allows searching based on the actual profile information.
If youre going to do that, then you will be missing out on a huge number of profiles, but you also won't be able to filter out the ones that aren't interested in you.
So, if you user the RIGHT mechanism, designed to help you find profiles, you can find people, who not only are within a decent distance, but also are interested in single guys like yourself.

I agree this is a better approach.
The "no single men" option is a good suggestion, because couples also mark the "straight man" option but still want 'No single guys" in their Ads and About sections. So, if you want to find the couples that are really looking for single men it can be a very practical option to distinguish between specific needs for the over populated species - the single man!
amen Gerrie. that is 1 thing that mmm waters down my something hehe. that is a big problem cause they do state they looking for a str8 cpl and a str8 male so what does that leave you to believe they are looking for cpls and singles. now i first have to go and open up their add to see what they are looking for.
i understand this is a swinger site and everybody has its right to choose what they want and i would not want it any other way. lets get rid of the time waisters
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hi guys i have not read everything on here but adonis there are still how many profiles each day from sengal people or should i say assholes i think about the double profiles for some people, they do it to have a better success rate example. i stay in jhb but travel frequent to durbs, if i'm going down to durbs then i can go and search but remember we search by area code so if the people in durbs are looking for fun they are going to miss me lol with this i dont have a problem but what i di have a big problem with is all the profiles on here that is getting a hell of a kick from just chatting because when it gets to the meeting that has been arranged they either dont show up or they cancel in advance about something tha came up. i mean anything can happen to any1 to have to cancel or move the date but lets be realistic once is ok the second time the warning lights should come on. i also know that we are not all compatable and not all have that connection we need to make the experience wonderfull but then just say so. hey boet of poepol i or we dont think we are going to get along but no, they still wanna talk horny with you and make more fake appointments if we could get a page where we could mention the profiles that has been waisting our times it would be great. i realise that its difficult to do but we gotta do something. create a page for those that dont want to meet just chat. i am on 2 other swinger sites as well and have the same problem there. i mean you get a site where all the fraudeulant companies are listed on specially the chinese, why cant we have a page on this site to add them there to warn the other guys , first go check there mate before you wast your time. i know it could be missused by people that have a grudhe against some1 but thats why we have to think of something NB: i dont mind if they want to only chat but then they have to say so from the start and stop waisting my time i know singles are irritating and thats 1 of the reasons why we as singles are casted out by cpls and single girls but these fake chatters are part of the reasons single guys get frustrated hoop julle verstaan my frustrasie