First things first!! I will not cross the racial line!! Hard no for me so don’t even message me, I'm in a relationship with Hoof_stout_seun and we play together and solo with consent. We both enjoy the lifestyle to the fullest with no hangups and complications. I don't play solo with couples without my wingman. Respect and love = loads of naughty fun😈😈❤️ Offer something of yourselves beyond the sexual. It’s great that you have an 8-inch penis or F-cup breasts, that you eat pussy like a champ or give the best blow jobs… but that’s not everything! Most people in the swinging community want to meet human beings they can connect with (even if the connection is brief,) we are not walking sex machines. Be honest!... I can’t overstate the importance of honesty! It’s no use saying that you’re 6 feet tall if you’re 5’7″, pretending to have tonnes of experience when you’re actually brand new to the lifestyle, or – and yes, I’ve seen this – pretending to be a couple when you’re a single person. Not only is it usually really obvious, but lying will be an absolute deal-breaker for most people. Just don't be a doos!!