Seriously not all single males are here looking for a quick shag and not every single male is disrespectful, some of us know the rules or should I say the unspoken rules of the lifestyle. Not every message is necessarily to meet up and not every request to chat means we have to meet up, sometimes there is a connection and sometimes there isn't but goodness me what has happened to just being friends without any play happening. Young Afrikaans speaking gentleman that has been part of the lifestyle...