Time again for "Jack 'n Jill" party!

(Look it up if you don't know what it is. But I suggest, look under Urban Dictionary first, to get the right idea. Google gives you, at first, boring American wedding rituals.)

3 or 4 guys and 3 or 4 girls.

— We'll only go ahead if we have equal numbers. Else it is just a sausage party.

Ideal for beginners (singles or couples) in the swinging scene and for people like me who take safety seriously yet love creative ... immm... outlets.

If you're really shy or have a public profile that means you want to mask your face, you're welcome to do so.

Each one undresses only as much as they want to.

All arrive at more or less the same time, and nobody has to stay any longer than you want.

Friday evening or Saturday evening. Depending when is most convenient for people who mail me about this.

It will be a quiet gettogether in my very private garden.

Dress code: semi something-or-other. But not tacky, please. Let's keep this smart and upmarket.

Everyone brings drinks and snacks.

We talk a bit, but flirt a bit more...

And we wait for a lady to take the lead, with a suggestive move or a sexy sound...