"If you're not thinking about sex, you're just not concentrating." - Body of Lies (2008, starring Russell Crowe as Ed Hoffman), slightly adapted *** “In the kitchens of love, after all, vice is like the pepper in a good sauce: it brings out the flavour; it's indispensable.” - Louis Ferdinand Céline, Journey to the End of the Night *** Discretion, always; and safety — sexually, emotionally, physically. *** I live in Pretoria, and travel regularly to the Vaal Triangle, Bloemfontein, Durban and Ste...