Tried before, but have not been very successful, life got in the way and some individuals don't seem to understand Mrs MPPaartjie's needs, so hopefully this goes a bit better......

Our needs might seem very particular but there are good reasons behind them.

We would like to find a gentleman that is truely single. We do not condone dishonesty and we will not enable it at all. If you are part of a couple and do play alone, we'd like to verify that with your partner face to face, just to avoid potential nastyness.

The ideal age range for a potential partner is between thirty and fourty.

It will be beneficial if you have vouches on your profile but not required.

We are interested in local individuals, we would like to build up some kind of potentially longer term arrangement and that will not be possible if you are around only once or twice a year.

You will need to be able to engage in conversation with both Mr and Mrs as we come as a package deal. We value individuals with a good, sharp sense of humour. Someone who can mentally engage and flirt without getting vulgar, rude or crass.

Patience and understanding is important. This is a new adventure and it will take time to move from the "talk" to the "walk". The pace of proceedings will be set my the Mrs' comfort levels. As such, play from the start is not garunteed.

We do lead very busy lives, both progessionally and personally. We also do not live online, so non pushy, chilled individuals would be perfect. Yes, we all are here for play and exploration, but pushing for something is a turn off for the Mrs.

Initial contact will be with Mr and online at first to judge the possible compatibility.

We have limited messages so we might take some time to respond. Do NOT send your contact numbers as we will not contact you that way, we value our privacy and that includes phone numbers.

We cannot see private/explicit albums even if you invite us, sorry. We also do not accept random friend requests, they will be declined.

Think you can seduce the Mrs mind after all that? Then give it a shot!