I am a professional self employed , white male , living in the Northern Suburbs of Cape Town. I have been on SH for a while and I have met some amazing woman and a few couples , but also some that were either afraid (which I can understand given what is going on in our country) , other too shy and then of course the profiles pretending to be woman or couples. The only assurance that I could give the ones I have met and the future ones (by the way they are still alive , none were murdered or rape...